Fr, I once saw a comment on a straight rape story where someone said they could only tolerate rape in yaoi, but couldn't stomach it in a straight story because the victim was a woman. They also said they didn't mind it when the victim was a man because they're a woman and can only relate to female victims.
I was honestly disgusted by that mindset. I always thought hating rape wasn't supposed to be about gender, but about the simple fact that sexual assault is a vile and horrible act, regardless of who the victim is

This site is so weird bro how do yaoi with literally rape get rated above 9.0 and when it's straight with rape it gets rated way lower
I'm not saying this to justify the ml's actions, but I just find it very ironic.