I think the people calling the dom abusive are uh... "Silly", to put it nicely.
But I do agree that starting a roleplay when their last conversation ended on such a clear miscommunication that they needed to talk about was a bad move. Any other kind of play would have been better but a roleplay specifically and intentionally blurs the lines of communication. I'm just glad they got there in the end.
But the fact that despite making the judgment error (imo) of starting a roleplay instead of a serious conversation, the dom was still flexible and willing to listen and receptive to his partner. He genuinely didn't know how anxious Hoseob was until he broke down like that. Since Hoseob was happy with their relationship and didn't think they were together in a committed romantic relationship, the dom incorrectly assumed he was happy just being fuck buddies.
But as soon as he realized how anxious Hoseob had been, he ~*.✧apologized✧。*゚+~
I think the people calling the dom abusive are uh... "Silly", to put it nicely.
But I do agree that starting a roleplay when their last conversation ended on such a clear miscommunication that they needed to talk about was a bad move. Any other kind of play would have been better but a roleplay specifically and intentionally blurs the lines of communication. I'm just glad they got there in the end.
But the fact that despite making the judgment error (imo) of starting a roleplay instead of a serious conversation, the dom was still flexible and willing to listen and receptive to his partner. He genuinely didn't know how anxious Hoseob was until he broke down like that. Since Hoseob was happy with their relationship and didn't think they were together in a committed romantic relationship, the dom incorrectly assumed he was happy just being fuck buddies.
But as soon as he realized how anxious Hoseob had been, he ~*.✧apologized✧。*゚+~
They're healthy and cute and I love them u///u