He isn't related to her by blood and it seems like they never met or interacted before she was an adult and marriagable age. And after they met, they mainly respect each other's intelligence, manners, and work-ethic. He and her dad may have grown up together, but they don't call each other brother and rarely think of each other as brothers -- more like friends. And he and her dad have also been separated for nearly two decades. He's never been with other women and is extremely respectful. It doesn't seem incestuous to me -- I get that he's older than her, but did I miss something?

I want Rosa to end up with the chubby old guy. I don't care if he's not a handsome ML. She is actually attracted to him and he seems like an honestly reliable, intelligent, loyal, good person. I don't want her to end up with the idiot husband, even if he is trying harder. Why does an absolute baddy need to be with a guy that's so far below her level?