Actually the fl cannot be blamed at all. She didn't do anything wrong towards the ml coz she made everything very clear before they first slept together. She was honest but not disrespectful. She put it like it was that she couldn't love him and only him. So yeah she totally has the clean chit. Moreover idk how but she needs help and support so she can choose herself and move on and realise that the ex is actually a horrible person and she has more worth. She actually keeps ml at a distance so I think she would need her family or a good friend for that ..and of course a psychiatrist/counsellor maybe. .
. But what I'm worried about it that even though the ML said he could take all that, he's going to get hurt. I know he chose this but I still don't want him to get heartbroken. Like the fl said, being someone's number 2 is indeed a very miserable life. He and I sympathise with the fl and her sad life and hope she gets help n gets better, but that shouldn't be at the cost of him going through pain...I know she isn't anywhere as bad as her ex..but that doesn't change the fact that she doesn't want a relationship anytime soon. Nothing wrong in him chasing her .but if she keeps rejecting him then I dare hope he puts himself first after chasing for some time. I am a bit biased towards him ngl coz he's such a nice guy trying to make her happy n all, I want him to be happy as well.
Actually the fl cannot be blamed at all. She didn't do anything wrong towards the ml coz she made everything very clear before they first slept together. She was honest but not disrespectful. She put it like it was that she couldn't love him and only him. So yeah she totally has the clean chit. Moreover idk how but she needs help and support so she can choose herself and move on and realise that the ex is actually a horrible person and she has more worth. She actually keeps ml at a distance so I think she would need her family or a good friend for that ..and of course a psychiatrist/counsellor maybe.
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But what I'm worried about it that even though the ML said he could take all that, he's going to get hurt. I know he chose this but I still don't want him to get heartbroken. Like the fl said, being someone's number 2 is indeed a very miserable life. He and I sympathise with the fl and her sad life and hope she gets help n gets better, but that shouldn't be at the cost of him going through pain...I know she isn't anywhere as bad as her ex..but that doesn't change the fact that she doesn't want a relationship anytime soon. Nothing wrong in him chasing her .but if she keeps rejecting him then I dare hope he puts himself first after chasing for some time. I am a bit biased towards him ngl coz he's such a nice guy trying to make her happy n all, I want him to be happy as well.