Anyone on tiktok help?

If you are wondering how this is "disrespectful." It starts with Hyperfixating on Fictional gay men then it turns into "I can turn a gay man straight." If your a female shipping yourself with a gay character you are a creep and all you are subconsciously saying is "I dont care if hes gay im going to do it anyway." its fucking disrespectful to gay men like myself when women don't respect that the character isn't interested in women. Thousands of characters to Yumeship or love and you pick the gay character? Are we fucking serious.

If your wondering how its considered disrespectful. Heres an example, Imagine theres a guy reading a GL (Girls Love.) And one of the female characters sexuality is never explicitly stated but the character is only shown with an interest in women (Hopefully you have common sense and can tell this means the character is lesbian.) Now lets say the guy starts yumeshiping with the Gl character despite it being known she only had interest in women. Makes the guy a creep right? this is the same thing The girl on tiktok is doing. If NACHIOBOY never says Quentin is intrested in Both men and women hes gay. Its not fucking hard to respect the character and their sexuality.

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The fact you only find this problem and making a big deal out of it is very telling. Such a non issue btw.

Alright, Explain how its a "Non-issue" How yumeshiping with a gay character isnt a issue. All I asked for was for help to enlighten this individual that it isnt okay. I never once made a "big deal." I never asked for everyone to attack them just enlighten them considering they are a minor. I think more people bringing light to this situation helps correct it. Its not the fact their yumeshiping with a character, Its the fact they just ignored the sexuality. Which is a issue by the way.

Sure! I would like to explain why is such a non-issue and because:

1.) It's just fiction plain and simple.

2.) Nobody cares if it's yumeshipping or not.

3.) You have the choice to ignore that kind of shipping but no, you decided to announce for something ridiculous that made you look so embarrassing.

4.) I'm gay too and I don't mind shipping myself with characters the opposite gender or sexuality but calling it disrespectful to gay men is like a "ONLY YOU" problem.

5.) Everyone is shipping everyone, who fucking cares. It's the fucking internet. I'd be more concerned if they ship themselves with a literal child.

Heres my response, 1. Yes, its fiction until its not. You subconsciously install that type of behavior in you by doing so. A female shipping herself with a fictional gay character isn't bad until it becomes a reality(As in going after Real gay men.) as I stated in previous replies. 2, I have nothing against yumeshipping as long as its with characters who are actually are shown interested in women (In this case.) 3, I have ignored many things of the same topic and allowed myself to be manipulated into thinking its "Normal" when its not its fucking creepy and im ashamed you are under that delusion, I truly feel sorry for you. I only Announced it because I reached out to the person in the situation and got blocked. I wouldn't have mentioned it here if everything had been cleared up. Personally, I dont think standing against something that can be discrimination is "Ridiculous" or "Embarrassing" but thats your opinion. 4, So, You ship yourself with Lesbian characters and/or Straight characters? Nothing in your sentence makes sense all I got was "I could care less about someones sexual preference." you sound like a straight man hitting on a lesbian women. It is disrespectful to gay men because it shows a disregard for their sexuality. 5, "Its the fucking internet." isnt an excuse, that just means anything that shouldn't be normalized is "Okay."

Wow, you're really that dumb to understand huh? I feel sorry for you too that you can't even comprehend in your head. I can see why they blocked you, not only dumb but also obnoxious.

1.) Idk what runs in your brain but that is the most idiotic take I have ever heard.

2.) And still nobody cares about that except people like you.

3.) You sound like an activist just how you acting like that because again you have the will to blocked that kind of content but no, you still engaged it and try to talk that person expecting to listen your whining.

4.) Idc if you think I'm a straight man. All I'm saying is if you're that offended by a ship that is so harmless and possibly a joke then just sucked it up and move on.

5.) Yeah no shit sherlock, it's not your cup of tea, so clearly it's not meant for you of course you would find it creepy and not normal for YOU.

I agree with you, Poltergeist. There's multiple fictional characters that are confirmed to be straight, let's not erase heavily implied/confirmed queer representation.

THANK YOU, FINALLY SOMEONE GETS IT.

You can tell you're in the wrong because you result to insulting me, funny how delusion works. 1, Its "idiototic." to be upset when people erase queer representation and blantly ignore a gay characters sexuality? You must not hear many takes if mines "The most idiotic." 2, That's a problem more people who "claim" to be queer should care. 3, Blocking someone doesn't fix the issue, how retarded are you? by not coming out saying "Hey, this actually isnt okay." You are letting this issue be normalized, which it shouldn't be. 4, I said you "sound like a straight man who hits on lesbian women." not that you are, Im wasn't so much offended I was more upset I have to say anything it should be common sense to respect a characters sexuality because at the end of the day its about respecting THE sexuality. 5, I dont find it creepy, It is creepy. Again its not normal why are we normalizing it? But clearly you cant comprehend that im not wasting anymore time arguing with someone who supports and does this behavior. I never demanded anyone to help, I just asked Hopefully in time you grow as a person to see the truth of the matter. Hope life treats you well, Happy May and thanks for your time

Holy shit, thank gods not everyone is delusion.

This is my take to your opinions on this:

1. remember it's a fictional character, from a fictional story. the thought that "It's fictional until its not" is kinda asinine and fear mongering, yea sure we shouldn't disregard it COULD happen. but is that what's happening there? It sounds like you're just enforcing your opinion BECAUSE it's making you personally uncomfortable.

2. If it makes you uncomfortable seeing straight people ship themselves with LBGTQ+ characters, you dont have to see it, you dont have to look at it, you have to acknowledge it. let people have their fun on the internet, if it doesnt harm like literally anyone to a point )some people are snowflakes when their opinions are questioned) then it's fine.

3 Im sorry for you that you were subjected to those experiences, however unless the creator "Friyva" is advocating thoughts like "not listening to the other person's sexual taste" should be the norm, it's fine. It's creepy yes, specifically when its IRL, which is done to a real person, that exists. But this is a fictional story, where the character wouldn't even exist or feel anything no matter what you do to it and as long as it stays fictional, who are you realistically hurting.

4. Remember it is a fictional story and a fictional character, no one mentioned it being done to real people

5. It's the internet, theres like a billion other things wrong in her and another that are good, no one is saying this is being normalized, maybe you should let people enjoy how they want to interact with their manwha's or any other media. Just because you, yourself finds it distressing, doesnt mean you have the right to question and enforce your views on others.

and lastly, I agree with Blepibli09. its such a none-issue topic.

if you reply to this saying "If it's such a none-issue topic then why did you reply dumbass" Because I can and this is the internet, welcome to this hellhole

I'm not going to bother restating the same points I made. You just prove that erasing queer representation is highly normalized which is a big issue, and im not the first to speak up about this topic it is an issue that I will protest against it because regardless if its "Fiction." its still fucking annoying to see my sexuality degraded and disregarded. You claim im forcing my views on others? when I calmly on my part explained my stand point Im not forcing anyone to attack anyone just asking. Im sorry you can see the issue regarding this topic, I genuinely hope in time you grow wiser. Happy may have a good day.

If its just "fictional." Then whitewashing a fictional black character is a "non-issue." If its just fictional then erasing disabilitys in fictional media is a "non-issue." If its just fictional then An adult shipping themselves with a fictional minor character is a "non-issue." Right? wrong, Its not the fact that its a fictional character with no feelings towards the topic but the people behind the character who are gay that DO have feelings and are affected. You stated "Doesnt mean you have the right to question and enforce your view on others." As a gay man I actually do have a right to question and speak against this behavior, as i said before I never demanded anything of anyone just educated and asked respectfully. You claim to agree with Blepi meaning Im going to hold you accountable for their claims, They stated "Id be more concerned if they shipped themselves with a literal child." Your claim that its the "internet" or its "fictional" couters this so which is it? you cant say the original topic is a non-issue because its fictional and say that shipping yourself with a fictional minor is a issue. If its just fictional whats the problem? You see how retarded that argument is? Just because its fictional isnt an excuse, and "having fun on the internet." isnt an excuse to be a shit person. If you make a mistake online you should be held accountable for it. Ignoring a problem doesn't make it go away, thanks for your time nice profile picture, My favorite is Torchic.

You seem genuinely upset about it, but theres no need to call others to harass someone based on their own personal preferences. Be kind, always.

Where did I ask for harassment? There are multiple replies where I stated not to harass them. Dont bother replying if your only argument is what others have said in different words, "Its just fiction." Or "Let people have fun, its the internet." Is an excuse to be Ignorant. Please read my responses if you want further enlightenment. I respect your be kind statement, I agree we all should try to help eachother. Have a good day.

I dont think you realise that you do not sound as the righteous moral and respectful person you are trying to portray yourself, quite the opposite actually. But hey, who am i to tell how others should act either way. Peace out, and careful with the enlightenment mentality, bro

I apologize if I come off that way, I genuinely mean everything I say as respectful or Polite as possible. Have a nice rest of april.