jaehyuk should come out. alone. coming out by yourself and coming out by calling yourself someone’s boyfriend isn’t the same thing. garam doesn’t have the say in the former but he does in the latter since he was his boyfie.
Nobody said they're going to do it together. I meant just Jaehyuk. That's what I'm saying. Garam could be a little more supportive if Jaehyuk wants to come out on his own and tell his parents or friends he's dating a guy. If Garam or his boyfriend whatever doesn't want their name involved then don't name drop. Nobody said nothing about dragging Garam through it too. I'm just saying he's manifesting that Jaehyuk would have the same miserable fate as he did (being outed and bullied)
ik i was actually agreeing w u idk why i typed it like that i think in garam’s eyes it’s a sure thing something bad will happen to jaehyuk if he comes out bc something bad happened to garam but other peoples reactions is not something he can control
I was just talking to a counselor about this. About how I need to let people love me. And realize that someone can love me and teach me how to love. But I have to be open and vulnerable and take the risk. Lol. I have childhood issues. Haha. Anyway...I get how Garam feels but focusing on the negative is not helping both of them. Not saying Jaehyuk is perfect. They're both lacking but Jaehyuk is actually trying he just doesn't know how since Garam isn't communicating either.
using ur therapy skills irl. based. but yessss i agree w you. they either communicate or break up for real </3
I'd be so crazy if I were Jaehyuk. It's damned if you do, damned if you don't. I don't get it. Does he want Jaehyuk to come out or not? The guy is willing to come out and be happy but Garam is low-key pulling him down so they can be miserable together. "You don't know how it is like to be outed" bullshit is just dragging on. He obviously doesn't care if people know he's bi or gay. Garam was outed and he had a bad experience but it seems like he wants the same bad things to happen to Jaehyuk with how much he's willing it to existence. Lol. Let. Jaehyuk. Come. Out. At least then it's going to happen on his own accord and not just outed because of circumstance.
At this point I just want Jaehyuk to come out whether or not he's in a relationship with Garam and hopefully the way he'll address the bullies would give Garam the courage to look at the bright side for once.
Also the appendicitis plot? Puh-leaze. I think it's further painting Garam as a victim. At this point I want Jaehyuk to be hit by a car so Garam gets jolted to his senses and realize he had it so good with Jaehyuk.