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I feel so dumb..

Mochitufo May 14, 2026 7:15 am

What does he mean with M?

Responses
    Ren May 14, 2026 11:46 am

    I think it’s S&M. In this case M being the submissive partner.

    kirantine May 15, 2026 2:07 am
    I think it’s S&M. In this case M being the submissive partner. Ren

    technically M simply means masochistic, not submissive. it's a common misconception.

    Katalinya May 15, 2026 1:33 pm
    technically M simply means masochistic, not submissive. it's a common misconception. kirantine

    Exactlyyyy you can still be masochistic but also be dominant, same as how a person can be submissive but sadistic.

    Ren May 15, 2026 4:07 pm
    technically M simply means masochistic, not submissive. it's a common misconception. kirantine

    I’m aware. That’s why I said “in this case” lol

    kirantine May 15, 2026 11:18 pm
    I’m aware. That’s why I said “in this case” lol Ren

    But you said "I think" and its not really "in this case" if submissive is entirely a diff word...

    Ren May 17, 2026 11:06 am
    But you said "I think" and its not really "in this case" if submissive is entirely a diff word... kirantine

    I can see where the confusion stems from. I’ll be clearer going forward.

    wonder May 18, 2026 10:22 am
    I can see where the confusion stems from. I’ll be clearer going forward. Ren

    No u were clear enough , anybody with reading comprehension can put two and two together

    kirantine May 18, 2026 3:40 pm
    No u were clear enough , anybody with reading comprehension can put two and two together wonder

    lmao unfortunately there are people out there who takes everything at face value and would equate masochism == bottom bc someone said so. it happened before and it'll keep happening in the future so I'd appreciate it people would give more definite answers. in any case, even Ren's first reply to OP felt like they also misunderstood bottoming == masochism, so maybe you both are on a different wavelength then where others are ar

    wonder May 19, 2026 1:56 am
    lmao unfortunately there are people out there who takes everything at face value and would equate masochism == bottom bc someone said so. it happened before and it'll keep happening in the future so I'd appreci... kirantine

    No you knew what the person meant you just wanted to put your two cents in

    kirantine May 19, 2026 5:43 am
    No you knew what the person meant you just wanted to put your two cents in wonder

    No, I did not. That's why I said what I said. Because I'm perfectly aware there are people who do think that submissive == masochist and sometimes also == bottom, they're on twitter TikTok and tumblr, literally seen too many people like that. Since you like to assume you're probably mad because you didn't know and wanted to save face

    Mochitufo May 19, 2026 9:02 am

    Omg can u stop??? This is so childish.

    kirantine May 19, 2026 10:13 am
    Omg can u stop??? This is so childish. Mochitufo

    Well I got time to respond to since elon ruined twitter again unfortunately, and I'm not the one to dig this up when the convo was already done ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    wonder May 19, 2026 10:17 am
    Well I got time to respond to since elon ruined twitter again unfortunately, and I'm not the one to dig this up when the convo was already done ¯_(ツ)_/¯ kirantine

    It’s obvious you got time if you cherry picking at what og comment said, you’re the first person i done went back and forth with on this site

    kirantine May 19, 2026 10:25 am
    It’s obvious you got time if you cherry picking at what og comment said, you’re the first person i done went back and forth with on this site wonder

    You're the one digging up the thread lmao
    I don't know why you're so insistent I cherry picked the first answer when you're the one doing it. So easy to see the people I mention from people who get into yaoi but aren't old enough to drink or drive, then go around asking their same aged friends what does bdsm mean or look it up on tiktok bc kids can't use google these days. I'm assuming you're the same age as you don't seem to know.

    wonder May 19, 2026 11:09 am
    You're the one digging up the thread lmaoI don't know why you're so insistent I cherry picked the first answer when you're the one doing it. So easy to see the people I mention from people who get into yaoi but... kirantine

    Here you go assuming , yes ik what bdsm mean js cz u seen some ppl not know what the word means don’t mean i don’t know and this whole conversation is stemming from you cherry picking , how am i the one doing that? All i said and you know for a fact you knew what the og commenter meant and for ppl that don’t know they can easily do a search cz if u can be on this site you can search up what that means

    kirantine May 19, 2026 12:33 pm
    Here you go assuming , yes ik what bdsm mean js cz u seen some ppl not know what the word means don’t mean i don’t know and this whole conversation is stemming from you cherry picking , how am i the one doi... wonder

    you're picking a fight with me on what YOU assume are my intentions when I'm telling you that's NOT my intention. YOU'RE cherry picking MY words and twisting it to what you want to mean. "Here you go assuming" pot kettle. "for the ppl that don't know they can easily search" then why did OP even have to ask what M means lol. YOU'RE deliberately dragging this fight because you build me up as some villain going around correcting people when I just happened to pass by and added to the original answer. I didn't even say anything mean about the first answerer and didn't have bad intentions ADDING to the first answer. yet you're here defending their honor, what, do you know them irl or something?

    kirantine May 19, 2026 12:35 pm
    Here you go assuming , yes ik what bdsm mean js cz u seen some ppl not know what the word means don’t mean i don’t know and this whole conversation is stemming from you cherry picking , how am i the one doi... wonder

    oh and miss me with the "you can easily do a search cuz if you can be on this site you can google", kids these days get mad over fujoshis and think it means fetishizer when it's far from it, or think it's a bad word just bc it literally translates to rotten girl. all because their tiktok friends says that's what they mean so yeah idk about you ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    Sumy May 19, 2026 5:28 pm
    you're picking a fight with me on what YOU assume are my intentions when I'm telling you that's NOT my intention. YOU'RE cherry picking MY words and twisting it to what you want to mean. "Here you go assuming"... kirantine

    If it really bothered you, you could've just ignored their comment. Don't answer me if you don't feel like it, I'm not trying to start anything. Just saying

    kirantine May 19, 2026 5:58 pm
    If it really bothered you, you could've just ignored their comment. Don't answer me if you don't feel like it, I'm not trying to start anything. Just saying Sumy

    Dw, you're cool. Yah, I get what you mean and if they were genuinely a troll I would ignore. But I have met these kind of people in other forums/comments section, they would pick a fight with everyone they slightly disagree with and unfortunately for everyone else I can't yap on twitter anymore because of the new update (sigh)

    wonder May 20, 2026 10:11 pm
    Dw, you're cool. Yah, I get what you mean and if they were genuinely a troll I would ignore. But I have met these kind of people in other forums/comments section, they would pick a fight with everyone they slig... kirantine

    Stop tryna be the victim i see through you. And you are my enemy and the villain. You’re my villain