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I miss my ex cant say the same thing for them tho

shan May 16, 2026 6:32 pm

last time we talked is february 14, all i asked was for closure. we ended things way back early august last year, when i went to his school he stood me up and when i chat him he never replied but he was already single in his mind(even tho he hasnt talked to me) after being miserable for about 6 months i gathered th courage and talked to him first to ask for closure i had alot of unanswered questions but i chose not to ask because he already has a new girlfriend. last april was supposed to be our 1 year if i didnt break up with him and aprils his birthday too.
i have a dump on tiktok and i only started it around december of last year to post stupid videos or post my poems there and i saw his account in my profile views, i brushed it off thinking he was only curious and he just saw my viral post that had my face on it but just this month hes back on my profile views and idk what to do cuz his gf is also there(i am not deleting my post cuz it already has alot of likes and views also that was posted in february) ive already forgotten about him the past few months when we had closure so idk what the fuck he wants, i think hes just messing with me at this point what should i do(YESS this isnt reddit but i dont have reddit so,,)

Responses
    jaehyun May 16, 2026 7:18 pm

    for the sake of your own sanity pleaseee let go of him,don't expect closure or an end statement from him,cuz him literally ghosting/not talking is the closure,but you should definitely tell the new gf abt him viewing your profile,stop expecting anything from him for your good, obviously you won't get over him anytime soon cuz you loved him,I get you too cuz I still waver on my ex sometimes,but trust me time does heal and once it's been awhile you won't ever remember him,try to keep yourself busy and please don't consider going back to a person who already chosen another person over you,even if he still wants you,which i doubt cuz it's the attention that they like,but you should definitely tell his gf

    shan May 16, 2026 7:19 pm
    for the sake of your own sanity pleaseee let go of him,don't expect closure or an end statement from him,cuz him literally ghosting/not talking is the closure,but you should definitely tell the new gf abt him v... jaehyun

    i think the gf knows, its just my gut but like she also looked at my profile alot of times now and has even liked some of my posts