I was reading a bsmd manwha and there was like rape play, but i really didnt expect it. So i comment like yo why is this in here. But people were like if your reading bsmd, its expected to be in there. My point is that true? I havent read any bdsm other than Kabukichou Bad Trip (´・ㅅ・`)
That is NOT true. Bdsm relationships is heavy on consent. Do not let anyone gaslight u into thinking otherwise lol Ppl who partake in bdsm take consent srsly, hence why there's safe words.
The only possible thing I can think of is non-con, but even then, there must be some sort of discussion about hard limits or a safe word if it gets too intense
Afaik that play is within bounds. There's a reason it's a "play". They know it ain't true but the rush of doing that, that feels like it's not a non-con is exciting to some.
I was reading a bsmd manwha and there was like rape play, but i really didnt expect it. So i comment like yo why is this in here. But people were like if your reading bsmd, its expected to be in there. My point is that true? I havent read any bdsm other than Kabukichou Bad Trip (´・ㅅ・`)