Okay, forget about Riftan because what you just said is dangerous. Abuse isn't about intentions it's about the damage done to a person.
I'm saying this because I worry you'll end up in an abusive relationship yourself thinking the way you do. There's such a thing called love bombing where one shower their partner with gestures of love after an abusive episode. Taking good care of someone doesn't negate the harm done to them.
Twin this is strictly in relation to this story. I understand very well what actual abuse is which is why I was so bothered when ppl were calling Riftan abusive because as you’ve stated it’s dangerous to misjudge what is abuse and what isn’t. Also love bombing in itself is a complex topic and also does not always equal abuse. Intentions, trauma hx, and actions are all things to be considered in relation to abuse on top of interpersonal interactions. I appreciate the concern/genuine reply.
Riftan got itttt like he love her soooo much like where all the ppl that was saying he was abusive??? Step to the front not all at once now. A lil aggressive? Yes A lil strict with the program? Yes but abusive??? NEVER lbs he has only genuinely ever wanted that woman to feel loved cared for n pampered