So real idk why they're trying to make her the villain in this
Well she did mess up. She would rather be around another girl that is her ex than be around her gf. And she ignored her the whole time. She is unstable and a huge red flag who knows what she will do if something bad happens again. At this point it too much for Sera to deal with, Sera has her own baggage. She struggled to get through to her when she refused to even date her and now this is happening again.
Girl please. I'm not saying sera doesn't have her own stuff but i think it's the bare minimum to try and at least understand your so called gf that is going thru something way way worse. Nothing could compare to loosing your family, and it's not like she just went to that girl for no reason. No one else actually helped her
She didn’t asked for help, she just left and self sabotage again, and even Jimin herself knows it that’s why she’s saying she wants to change. Those people around her are willing to help her, but she herself doesn’t want to and that’s okay, but her choosing her ex of all people to keep her company IS WRONG AF and very disrespectful to her partner even if it has no malice. Cause even if Jimin think only of her as a friend or wtvr, the ex still has different motive.
Sera being fed up is realistic wise if you ever had a wlw relationship. This relationship is so tiring, and draining, they both need to separate and work on themselves.
I’m not trying to undermine what Jimin went through don’t get me wrong, cause I know how it felt to loose your parens, but even she herself know her way of coping is wrong, that’s self sabotage and she knows it. She wants to change but it’s too late now. Sera is not a Saint where she can keep waiting and help Jimin to heal, only Jimin can do that. Support wouldn’t even help Jimin’s case cause instead of talking, she pushed everyone and just as she said, “she closes up” and do wtvr coping she can think off (either sleeping with people or getting drunk). I have no problem with how people cope, but this type of coping is only destroying yourself, Jimin and her friends knows that too. I just hope she works on herself more than keeping Sera. She need to let Sera go so she can focus on herself.
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Well said
Im so done with them acting like jimin is a bad person. She set boundaries and everyone acts like its the worst thing ever, and her friends are even worse like mind ur own business she doesn’t owe her her whole life story especially when she held a huge way less personal secret