This!!!!!!
And you're not crazy a lot of people hated Dojin since book1..
I myself included..
ur so right bro esp when hyesung said he never would’ve stayed with dojin if he wasn’t baby trapped with byul
Gurl I think most of the readers share the same sentiment as you... all of us hate dojin and byul for this... I know hyesung needs a closure and I hope that even if he forgives his mother , he would completely cutoff relationship with her... like let hyesung decide what he wants why does these two keep on giving him "advice" when they have never experienced what hyesung has ? They have NO right to decide for hyesung... I just hope hyesung forgives her and forgets her and completely cuts off her from his life...
I wouldn’t dare compare Hyesung’s “abandoning” Byul (if I’m correct he was literally baby trapped and raped, inevitably pregnant, Dojin paid him to have the baby but he never took the money) with the granny abandoning him for nearly his whole life. It just feels incomparable to me because they were at different life stages and other things. But I get what some people mean by the “they all have reasons” part. It’s just wrong. Did I contradict?
I just think she could’ve brought him somewhere safer before leaving. Hyesung knew the baby was in the care of Dojin, he didn’t leave him in the hands of an abuser, nor start a new family. Hyesung was also kind of being led on to think this is fine by Dojin’s friend, shit he was being hidden!
I know I seem like I’m shitting on the granny but I promise I’m not. I’m only bringing it up to remind people it’s incomparable. The one I’d like to shit on is Dojin. He had 15+ years (however old Byul is) to tell Hyesung about how he gifted house to granny, paying her living expenses, yapping away on the phone with granny (endearingly).
Oh my good, that’s the same or similar amount of years that Hyesung had to SUPPORT HIMSELF. I AM NOT THE CRAZY ONE FOR DISLIKING DOJIN. Am I? I try to see everyone’s perspective, but this one…
Need to see what Hyesung’s decision is. Just closure, or let his mother back in his life? I will respect both decisions, AS LONG AS IT’S NOT DOJIN MAKING THE CALL.