100%. Like okay you're in a dip but as an adult putting your self-sabotaging on others like this and that to directly physically harming them is absolutely. Not. Okay. At. All.
Act your age and go get therapy, you cannot be hurting other people because you feel like shit. Your suffering is unique- of course, like everyone's is, but it isn't special.
And it's more fucked up because she would only ever take this out on the one person who has NOTHING to do with this and has been nothing but supportive and encouraging. You lack the courage to confront the problem so you put it on someone else- and sure this is me calling the kettle black cause we all have our moments but physical assault? Bro. No.
EXACTLY. She is under a lot of pressure so I'd understand why she'd yell and lash out cuz she could always apologize for her words. But she went as far as to put her hands on him when he was trying to comfort her?? That's what I hate the most and continues to bug me. Knowing him he'll likely accept her apology but it's now clouded my opinion of her.
Absolutely. Her character was grey, like most of us are of course, but I never disliked her for it- until now. It's more shitty exactly because, as you said, he'll forgive her. And he'll 100% suffer more for it. Just.... Ha, ew. He's gone through hell and back to understand you and this is how you treat him. ......
I get shes going through something but she really didn't have to slap him like that. He's never done anything bad towards her then she yells at him and slaps him?? Idk if I'll enjoy reading this anymore cuz that really left a bad taste with me and not sure if what she'll do to apologize will even be enough