True. I get why he liked Jo, cause he respresented the new life he wanted. But every time he met with TJ they banged. I don't think he ever refused to sleep with TJ out of respect for Jo (except when he slept with Jo the day before meeting TJ, but I don't think that was him holding back because he loved Jo that much.) I'm not saying TJ is the greenest or even a green flag, and to some degree I feel bad for Jo, cause I think he really was in love. And then turned into obsession. But I think the way the story was written it always leaned more towards him ending up with TJ. I think ultimately Jo his presence wasn't strong enough to make him forget TJ (〜￣△￣)〜
TJ and Ian are married, living their happy and well-deserved quiet gay life, and you still got Jo fans thinking that they’re star-crossed lovers lmao. It was a situationship that didn’t even last six months and one that Ian constantly and WILLINGLY disrespected because Oh Taejoon is the love of his life. Jo was a pit stop on the way to his destination. Everything he gained from their time together was used to fix and better his relationship with his husband.