Well it gets talked about way more than it's actually done. It's definitely a thing, but it's nowhere near as common as people might think. Most BDSM folks I know are into entirely different kinds of play, and plenty have never tried it at all.
That's what I thought. I kinda had the idea it would be something similar to penetrative sex in gay couples, which is much less common than it's usually displayed in media, but even more niche. Thank you very much for your reply, you're very kind
I know a lot of people in the lifestyle including myself. Only ONE likes sounding, and she's female lol It's not common at all.
Depends on the person. Usually takes a level of trust between partners and someone who was actually trained to know what they're doing because that's a very sensitive part of the body. Not done right could cause complications.
Thank you all for your replies
I've got a question, for the real freaks out there. Is urethral sounding really that common in rough play/bdsm? I see it all the time in BL manhwas in particular, especially the ones that have more explicitly bdsm dynamics, but I'm not sure whether it's just something that is trendy in manhwas or it's really that common.
It's one of the few things I really have to skip through in manhwas cuz it really makes me uncomfortable. I think it's because I once had a really bad bladder infection, and though I'm sure it isn't the same sensation, I just can't avoid associating it with that