Yeah... honestly that's why I find it hard to classify most rofans as reverse harem... what's the point when 90% of the time the endgame is already clear? The "suitors" may help mc and even show a bit of affection... but only the ml, aka endgame, have real romantic interactions with mc. Even holding hands in a romantic way rarely happens and when it does is with them. The others? No matter how much the love mc they don't have a chance. While in the male centered harems... they flirt, show interest and give a lot of fanservice/pda... and there's eithe multiple endgames or left open with mc not choosing anyone is specific.
I know whe harem in both come from "multiple people interested in mc and mc being able to choose any of them"... but I still find it weird when the choice is that obvious from start...
I don't think the dullahans see her romantically... and I don't think the trash that killed her even has the right to be mentioned. The knight... also has reasons that are too spoilery to be interested and is not worthy too. Only the 1st prince and redhead are really options... but I understand your view.
Honestly the be adored by everyone happens a lot both in H and RH... and it's really bad when authors make 90% of the people surrounding mc the opposite gender and somehow interested in them... it's really annoying... I think the reason RH is less aggravating for me is because the male "suitors" are less annoying than their counterparts. And they don't keep crossing the line when showing interest. When you think about what female harem members usually do... it could very well be considered harassment... and I hate how authors use them as plot devices... they bring more trouple than help.
Yeah... all in all authors suck arse when writing the romance part in most stories...

To all those saying this is not a reverse harem: get your eyes checked pls.
Every major male character is in love with her, even the very prince that killed her.
Even the Dullahan knights are her worshippers as "captain". This is ultimate harem fantasy: to be desired and adored by everyone.
I am not a fan of RH but I like this story. I find the RH part of it ridiculous but that does not spoil the story for me.