Women can't fully understand how guys feel huh. Then explain why BL is dominated by women authors? Women who can't fully understand how guys feel are writing stories about guys falling in love and this is supposed to appeal to male audiences because.....?
The logic that women can't fully understand how guys feel so that is why a story written by a female author will be fully understood by a male audiences is funny.
Btw I disagree that women can't fully understand how guys feels, vice versa. Maybe at first glance? Women and men live different lives so initial understanding will be different. But communication is key to fully understanding one another. But this is a separate topic.
I think the truth of the matter is it doesn't matter if you're male or female enjoying BL. BL can be enjoyed by all, but the point still remains BL authors are mainly female and they write their stories with women in mind. I think also because BL is meant to entertain first and foremost, it's not exactly seeking to tell politically correct stories in terms of LGBTQ+ friendly, afterall, most stories are still deeply heteronormative.

It’s funny how a lot of the girls who reads bl still thinks it’s only for them in my opinion the whole idea that bl was for girls was wrong from day 0 after all it’s a story about guys loving guys
Ofc women have progressed bl to the point where it is today but in the end you can’t fully understand how guys feel