bro this implies you are a 59 yr old on pirate website for BL mangas
im dying of laughter
Life goals ig
People don't magically loose interest in their hobbies when they are old
Hey when you in your 59 someday
You probably want to have same hobby like in your 20 too, to feel younger
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I’m still angry at her in this story and my own mother, but I just live my life by myself most of the time. I visit and stay over sometimes for college, I see my mom and dad. We don’t talk as often but she tries to show her love through actions. I never forgave her for things she did, but I did learn to live with it. Unfortunate truth of filial piety in my culture, my hate lessened over time but it does hurt to remember. I might cry if they die, I definitely will, but it’ll be short lasting compared to the Ling cries from the trauma caused by them.
In your post, not once did you blame Hyesung so that’s nice. Usually when someone defends the mother, they try to shift blame onto another that didn’t do anything to deserve that, like Hyesung. And you also didn’t defend her actions. Thank you for sharing.
And you are never too old to be a pirate.
I was busy moving and setting up in a new home. Sorry for the delay.
Of all the answers, yours comes closest to my reality. I can only speak for myself. I’m sure each person my age has their own perspective. I have found that throughout my life, I have gained and lost interest in many things. However, comic books have always been with me since I was a child. The only thing that has changed, are the genres (expanding).
I don’t take offense to anyone criticizing me, since we each live our unique life experiences. Eventually, as you guys get older, some will lose interest in these same things, while others may stick with it. Either way, time will continue to move forward. The YOU that only you know, will remain trapped on the inside. If you’re brave, you will hold on to things that you truly love, even if you have to deal with criticism here and there .
TO EVERYONE ANGRY AT THE MOTHER: I am someone whose mother abandoned her. Although I was around her on a semi-friendly basis after I turned 25, the relationship remained there. I was filled with resentment and limited my interactions with her as much as I could. Once I had my son, I tried to give him the opportunity to have a relationship with her and in that sense I made the right decision because she was a loving grandmother to him. She suddenly died when I was 39. I never got a single I love you, I am proud of you or I am sorry.
Next year it’ll be 20 years since she died. What I have learned from my experience, is that our parents are people just like we are. Just because they give us life, doesn’t mean they are cut out to be parents, or that they even have parental love for us. I think that people who have loving and supportive parents are fortunate, but I believe that the majority just deal with the responsibility because they must.
I truly believe that both my parents especially my mother were not cut out to be parents, they were just thrown into the situation. I believe that my mother did the best she could with the situation she was in. Because I also believe that we always make the right choice, even if the outcome is bad. If we have to pick one out of two bad things, we will always choose the least painful one.
I hope that in another reality, there is another version of me who is living a happy life filled with the love and support from my mother.
This was a beautiful chapter. Thank you to the Author.