he doesn't appear when he needed to but now he does...

Exactly, we all know he's not the end game. Idk why writers put these characters in these situation. I hate when innocent ppl get brought into ppls mess, like Sir get over that man before you move to the next one...as my grandma use to say "clean your house before you invite a guess" translation: do the emotional work before you get someone new, that way they won't trip over your old baggage.