tbh you're not in the wrong imo, some people don't know how to separate fiction from reality anymore. I too am a gay guy and I've never once considered any fictional ship to bring down the community or bring it any kind of harm, hell even I have fictional ships. people are to sensitive about the dumbest shit these days especially when it has to do with fiction.
Exactly because I doubt, hell I am sure now that a fictional ship of two fictional characters can't harm a real existing community.
That can only happen if you are crazy enough to not know how to separate fiction and reality.
And the fact he was saying it with a POTN pfp, like if any fiction story can harm the community then that story will be the first one to do it.

Can someone tell me how the f*ck a fictional ship is bringing harm to gay community?
I myself am gay but I never felt any type of harm or anything from shipping.
So I just want to know am I in the wrong or that stupid person saying all this bullshit.