I think some are forgetting that Hoseob is a fully grown adult, in fact, older than Jeongwon too. He is innocent in bdsm, but not as an individual. It is portrayed through their first huge fight how mature and calm he was with addressing his feelings and, in fact, was capable of conveying it to Jeongwon comfortably. (He did take his time to convey it but it was for the best that he took time to comprehend his feelings with reasoning rather than just diving right into a hard conversation when he doesn't even know why he's feeling the way he is. It helps both people to navigate what happened and what to do better in the future like that)
Thus, he is more aware of what his limits are and I'm sure that he would voice it out when something IS overwhelming during a play. He is just an emphatic person so he tends to delve deep into Jeongwon's words and feelings, but that doesn't change the fact he was enjoying the play because again he is aware that it is a play
And tbh Jeongwon would've immediately stopped if Hoseob had expressed any discomfort during a play. He even does check-ins by reminding Hoseob that he can let him know if it's too much or that he wants to stop.
And bear in mind, Jeongwon would rather bottle up his feelings than admit it. But, he is actually expressing it now. And it might seem unnecessary to express during a play, but it can be very exciting for a DS couple to sort through jealousy during a play. It depends on the couple obviously, but we are made aware that Hoseob was excited by it which means it is consensual for him too.
And Jeongwon is a dominant sadist. So, the feet on the head is really just a play rather than venting to Hoseob. If he really was venting his frustrations, trust me, he wouldn't just leave Hoseob alone. Like, if he was venting through a play, he can overwhelm Hoseob with toys or even something outside of Hoseob's comfort rather than what Hoseob is very interested in (the cutie literally got closer when he heard bondage play too)
It is still my opinion of the dynamic between the two, but I hope this could give some perspective for others who are being a bit hard on Jeongwon
I think some are forgetting that Hoseob is a fully grown adult, in fact, older than Jeongwon too. He is innocent in bdsm, but not as an individual. It is portrayed through their first huge fight how mature and calm he was with addressing his feelings and, in fact, was capable of conveying it to Jeongwon comfortably. (He did take his time to convey it but it was for the best that he took time to comprehend his feelings with reasoning rather than just diving right into a hard conversation when he doesn't even know why he's feeling the way he is. It helps both people to navigate what happened and what to do better in the future like that)
Thus, he is more aware of what his limits are and I'm sure that he would voice it out when something IS overwhelming during a play. He is just an emphatic person so he tends to delve deep into Jeongwon's words and feelings, but that doesn't change the fact he was enjoying the play because again he is aware that it is a play
And tbh Jeongwon would've immediately stopped if Hoseob had expressed any discomfort during a play. He even does check-ins by reminding Hoseob that he can let him know if it's too much or that he wants to stop.
And bear in mind, Jeongwon would rather bottle up his feelings than admit it. But, he is actually expressing it now. And it might seem unnecessary to express during a play, but it can be very exciting for a DS couple to sort through jealousy during a play. It depends on the couple obviously, but we are made aware that Hoseob was excited by it which means it is consensual for him too.
And Jeongwon is a dominant sadist. So, the feet on the head is really just a play rather than venting to Hoseob. If he really was venting his frustrations, trust me, he wouldn't just leave Hoseob alone. Like, if he was venting through a play, he can overwhelm Hoseob with toys or even something outside of Hoseob's comfort rather than what Hoseob is very interested in (the cutie literally got closer when he heard bondage play too)
It is still my opinion of the dynamic between the two, but I hope this could give some perspective for others who are being a bit hard on Jeongwon
And thanks for coming to my Ted Talk lololol