Idk what u consider classic so I'm just gonna chuck in a variety. Most of these r mangas as a heads up.
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/my_hyung_s_lover/ (manhwa, psychological, kind of fucked up but in an interesting way, falls off towards the end)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sensei_kowai_hanashi_shimasenka/ (manga, horror, fucked up bc it's student x teacher + iirc the student is kind of coercive)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/nemureru_tsuki/ (manga, this one is sooo good if u ignore one thing, bittersweet/ sad end, also kind of horror, v unfortunate case of incest, cousin x cousin, but that makes it fit ur criteria lol)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ashtray/ (manhwa, just plain fucked up in a bad way, I'd categorise this as just rape and torture porn ngl)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/zankyou/ (manga, not labelled as a bl but there is a gay relationship, a bit fucked up and also sad ending, seinen)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/lonely_to_organdy/ (manga, Ghost x human, sad ending)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sleeping_dead/ (manga, slightly fucked up but in a good way, mangaka's other works would also fit the bill)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yonin_no_nibiiro/ (manga, fucked up in a weird way, crime drama ig??)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_perfect_relationship/ (manhwa, psychological, fucked up in an interesting way)

please recommend me some REALLY fucked up, twisted, tragic and/or sad bl manga. not the classic stuff please.