Honestly once a rumor starts there's gonna be a lot of hate regardless
"yea u can tell she was leading him on thro the texts"
"couldn't she tell he was hitting on her? Why not tell his gf"
"she's so two faced"
"How could she use her friend as an excuse to keep meeting her bf"
Im sure some ppl would see through the BS and it would have helped, but she probably wasn't in the right mindset
yea she wasn’t and i do agree people would try and find a way to turn it on her but since people were so quick to point fingers at her just through word of mouth, i think that providing screenshots of whatever would maybe make the sides equal out somewhat since rumours spread so quickly
her literally not doing ANYTHING just makes her look worse, like both that incident and the new post that was posted abt her and her ex or wtv
idk i just think it’s annoying that she keeps drowning in “trauma” and self pity when she hasn’t done a single thing to defend herself or TRY to make it better
Because, and this happens day to day irl, the first one to spread a rumour or “come forward” about a situation is usually ALWAYS the side people will choose. I literally see it happen everyday on social media, person A will expose someone online and without any evidence, others will support them and cancel person B. Only to double back when the truth comes out that person B is actually the victim.. But even then, it takes a lot to convince people who have already let their emotions side with person A.. They typically won’t believe person B regardless. They’ll doubt person B even when they provide solid evidence.. Idk if it’s cause people hate being told they’re wrong or…..???? But yeah. It’s not as simple as just showing evidence.. Though in this case I think it would’ve helped her.. I still think people would say some bs like why was she talking to him when he had a gf, even if their conversations were platonic.. People love to spin shit.
why didn’t she just post the screenshots of him being an obsessive freak, like it can’t be that hard