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Pls let me know if this is addressed, cause I’m considering dropping this. I don’t even think the first time was addressed that well either, and now here it seems to me like that’s just the dynamic author switched to and everything this story was built on is disregarded.
I still think this is a pretty good bdsm/ kink series all things considered but any real life dom who knowingly brings personal negative feelings into a scene to "take it out" on someone without the submissive's consent is bad heckin news. If they bring those feelings in by accident (we're all human, sometimes emotions get tangled up or come out in ways we don't expect) that's one thing. But knowing you feel genuinely angry/ hurt and using that anger/ hurt against your partner without them actively consenting to that type of dynamic? That clashes with a lot of consent forward mentalities that are super important in the kink scene and in relationships, especially BDSM ones.
It's happened twice so far in this series but the first time it felt more accidental/ unintentional and he owned up to it. But this second time it's super intentional and feels manipulative in a way that isn't kinky consenting fun.
I'm definitely still hopeful for this series and can forgive this if it's addressed and handled.