This is the second best BDSM series out there, but it still has its issues (mainly just one). That main issue is that the dom keeps bringing their relationship issues (and to some extent, his emotions) into scenes. Regarding relationship issues: BDSM inherently involves a power dynamic. It also usually involves some form of physical vulnerability for the sub, as well as intense emotional states. These three things combined make it hard to say that anything your sub says or does to fix/help those relationship issues are of their own free will or what they really want. A sub telling you they want to fix things while they’re tied up and in subspace isn’t worth shit. They might feel that way afterwards, but you can’t take what they say in that moment as truth. Putting all of that aside, you can also just talk to your partner like a normal adult. For fucks sake, this mf is like over 30. Regarding emotions: bringing emotions into scenes isn’t inherently bad, so long as you can keep it safe, sane, and consensual, as well as not try to work through or process those emotions mid-scene. Some people can find jealousy hot, but you can’t be domming AND whining abt the specific thing that made you jealous, at least not without prior consent. You especially can’t be aiming to make your sub feel bad about their actions that made YOU jealous (which is ultimately your own issue). Regarding consent: It’s also an issue bc it means that dom is inserting a new play (ig you’d call this like therapy play idk) without the subs explicit consent, which is literally what BDSM is built on. Subs have all the power bc doms need to listen to their “no” above all else.
This is the second best BDSM series out there, but it still has its issues (mainly just one).
That main issue is that the dom keeps bringing their relationship issues (and to some extent, his emotions) into scenes.
Regarding relationship issues:
BDSM inherently involves a power dynamic. It also usually involves some form of physical vulnerability for the sub, as well as intense emotional states. These three things combined make it hard to say that anything your sub says or does to fix/help those relationship issues are of their own free will or what they really want. A sub telling you they want to fix things while they’re tied up and in subspace isn’t worth shit. They might feel that way afterwards, but you can’t take what they say in that moment as truth.
Putting all of that aside, you can also just talk to your partner like a normal adult. For fucks sake, this mf is like over 30.
Regarding emotions: bringing emotions into scenes isn’t inherently bad, so long as you can keep it safe, sane, and consensual, as well as not try to work through or process those emotions mid-scene. Some people can find jealousy hot, but you can’t be domming AND whining abt the specific thing that made you jealous, at least not without prior consent. You especially can’t be aiming to make your sub feel bad about their actions that made YOU jealous (which is ultimately your own issue).
Regarding consent: It’s also an issue bc it means that dom is inserting a new play (ig you’d call this like therapy play idk) without the subs explicit consent, which is literally what BDSM is built on. Subs have all the power bc doms need to listen to their “no” above all else.