yeah my point exactly. personally, i don't think these scenes are being fetishistic (at least compared to something like kedamonotachi no jikan)
my point is that i wanted the people making the aforementioned comments to consider that the author might write the way they do for a reason. that sometimes the curtains are blue for a reason. and that it would do everyone a world of good to not immediately shoot the idea down over perceived moral high ground.

like yes i agree rape is a hard topic to digest and i do think it's a very reasonable response to be disgusted and uncomfortable by the depiction of it in this manhwa
but y'all are doing yourselves a disservice by completely writing off this arc as "the author's icky yucky fetish :((" and "i'm not even gonna read the backstory vro "
and this applies to other manhwas and other medias as well. but the amount of people whose kneejerk reaction to media where problematic = bad is worrying. that's how we get puritanism. that's how we get people still thinking lolita is a love story.