It’s kind of hard to tell you what to stay away from bcuz it depends on ur tastes but imo stay away from manhwa/manga that has excessive rape or miscommunication dragged out for like 50 chapters. (cough cough eighteens bed and non zero sum)
I reccomend red thread quest, unsleep, yatamomo but anything by harada is really good imo, gata pishi, ai no kusabi (also has an anime), poem of wind and trees (has anime too), SaYe, between the lines, boundary of delusion, oni wa warau ka, natsuhate no unknown, Adana o Kure, cat choice, degenerate/mahjong, codename Anastasia (this one’s iffy but see if you like it…), backlight, a home far away, and popular mangaka x depressed mangaka.

I've been inactive for a while and kinda lost view on which mangas (yaois) are good and which i should stay away from. any reccomendations? I read any kind of yaoi just so ykლ(´ڡ`ლ)