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It's not that complicated, mari is the oldest and maru was a second child in her previous relationship who passed away as a baby. After that the parents separated the dad took mari with him and basically cut of the contact with mom. Now after a while gongja was adopted and since the name was on him when he was found nobody changed it.

what is the family tree exactly?? i thought there is only Maru, but there is Mari?
with the naming pattern im surprised gongja is gongja, not maro