Spoilers and ranting … …. ….. …… the MC had a lovely family, but get murdered, and she end up abused in too many ways The ML… is the same ? Kid sent to war The brother, just got his mom murdered, got abused, end up in a war at the glorious age of 10 ! (Btw, that make the MC a 7 yo ?! Come on people, writer should spend more time with real kids, if they want to write about them)
The princess… bear with me people : I can’t stand her, but i won’t curse her either She got a full life of abuse - literally from birth to death and dies without ever being loved or cared for - by any one, barely being used at the end. That’s about 16 to 20 years of brutal abuse ? Basically that’s more that any of the other characters ever endured : and while it’s the only character whose abuse are set as « background » , she’s in fact, the only one who shows real sequels and trauma for her pain… When she’s then reborn as the « cherished princess » of the same evil dad (truly evil) : she can never trust that man’s « love », she has anything material, and the servants’ adoration… But she needs to act the part of the « perfect princess ». And in truth, there’s no real care and certainly no love again. As a kid, she never could have opposed the crazy emperor who used her name to ruin one of the family that might oppose him. This is a fact. That certainly does not apply to the petty trick she’ll employ against the MC later, when she turns evil from jealousy upon the MC who is cherished in both life.
There certainly was other way, and that’s my biggest deception there : i wished that character had some opportunity to grow. What would have happened if someone had welcomed her with her jealousy ? What if she had an opportunity to tell how contradicted she felt ? What if she received a bit of empathy then, and found out what she truly needed ? Wrong is wrong, but PTSD is real in her case.
Honestly, even with a real loving family she would have a hard time recovering (there are other titles on that concept, right ?)
She’s entirely wrong in the end : but it’s also another kind of pitiful - a real disaster where the victim end’s up becoming a persecutor. I just want to read about the way out : there are enough victims in the world already. And healing ways do exist
I don’t know if you noticed, but we, reader can influence this. There use to be plethora of rape-ish romance : this was disturbing enough that many raised concern, and now, these seems to be less and less ? i wish readers would also raise awareness about the other use of child abuse We don’t need a 10th of it to get trauma in real life, and we certainly can have beautiful stories without baking a pie on children’s misery Thank you for reading me Peace and a lot of love ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Spoilers and ranting …
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the MC had a lovely family, but get murdered, and she end up abused in too many ways
The ML… is the same ? Kid sent to war
The brother, just got his mom murdered, got abused, end up in a war at the glorious age of 10 ! (Btw, that make the MC a 7 yo ?! Come on people, writer should spend more time with real kids, if they want to write about them)
The princess… bear with me people : I can’t stand her, but i won’t curse her either
She got a full life of abuse - literally from birth to death and dies without ever being loved or cared for - by any one, barely being used at the end. That’s about 16 to 20 years of brutal abuse ?
Basically that’s more that any of the other characters ever endured : and while it’s the only character whose abuse are set as « background » , she’s in fact, the only one who shows real sequels and trauma for her pain…
When she’s then reborn as the « cherished princess » of the same evil dad (truly evil) : she can never trust that man’s « love », she has anything material, and the servants’ adoration… But she needs to act the part of the « perfect princess ». And in truth, there’s no real care and certainly no love again.
As a kid, she never could have opposed the crazy emperor who used her name to ruin one of the family that might oppose him. This is a fact.
That certainly does not apply to the petty trick she’ll employ against the MC later, when she turns evil from jealousy upon the MC who is cherished in both life.
There certainly was other way, and that’s my biggest deception there : i wished that character had some opportunity to grow.
What would have happened if someone had welcomed her with her jealousy ? What if she had an opportunity to tell how contradicted she felt ? What if she received a bit of empathy then, and found out what she truly needed ?
Wrong is wrong, but PTSD is real in her case.
Honestly, even with a real loving family she would have a hard time recovering (there are other titles on that concept, right ?)
She’s entirely wrong in the end : but it’s also another kind of pitiful - a real disaster where the victim end’s up becoming a persecutor.
I just want to read about the way out : there are enough victims in the world already. And healing ways do exist
I don’t know if you noticed, but we, reader can influence this.
There use to be plethora of rape-ish romance : this was disturbing enough that many raised concern, and now, these seems to be less and less ?
i wish readers would also raise awareness about the other use of child abuse
We don’t need a 10th of it to get trauma in real life,
and we certainly can have beautiful stories without baking a pie on children’s misery
Thank you for reading me
Peace and a lot of love ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~