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people downvoting are just trash on earth,

but hey. idk how old you are n stuff but having insecurities is normal. lets go one by one

saggy breasts are normal, all breasts sag. thats just biology is, skin stretches, breasts are masses of tissue basically anyways.

hips dips are natural, thats how bones and flesh work. a normal person no matter what will have a "dip" uness posed or genuinely built different or shit

stomachs can never be "flat" they change according to a womans cycle, and having some belly, againisnt some crime. normal. human.

having big thighs, all bodies store fat differently, having thick thighs isnt even a a bad thing, they can honestly be so attractive, and personally i find them really good too! feels very cozy id say!

there is alot you can do to feel better about yourself and gain confidence, not fitting into a mold doesnt make you ugly, but cowering and losing confidence and kindess to yourself can affect how you and others perceive you.

feeling the need to let it out is also normal, healthy. this isnt something you can just blurt out t someone irl anyways, so no need to apologise. and there are alot of people out there in this world, not everyone is into the same big boobs, slim body type women, humans come in all different shape and sizes and so does the love they harbour.

Don't worry about the people down voting this some unemployed loser spend their time down voting all the comments in this section of the site. I know nothing I say will really make you feel better but please remember if you always talk down on yourself you'll only feel worse start praising yourself and all your qualities

same. been there. but what else can we do ? i personally don’t wanna live with any regrets. i feel like, the day i turn 60, and i look back at my youth, ill be so utterly disappointed at myself for hiding my body and not being able to do stuff everyone can do just because i didn’t have « the perfect body ».
i know what im saying wont probably help you, but you’re not alone.

social media make you feel like having a short torso is wrong, but it’s not. you don’t need a long torso, you just need the right clothes that fit your body type, and it will look exactly the same as if you had a long torso. you’re still beautiful even if you don’t have the said perfect body. people’s opinion don’t matter, they don’t define you. you’re not unlovable at all. people don’t always have the said perfect body, they’re just confident.

i’ve never met an ugly woman. they are all beautiful in their own ways, saggy boobs, short torso, stretch marks or even hips dips are ALL normal. you just never get to actually see them on social media because nobody shows what a real body looks like.

loving and accepting ur body is the strongest thing someone can do. it will never be easy. and it will take time, but i see you, and im really hoping that one day you can feel comfortable in your body. you’re more than just a body, live your life with joy. hips dips are SEXY

i know everything that we say, every logical explanation won’t help you. but really, you’re not alone at all babe. just know that.

I’m genuinely puzzled by the downvotes on this post. :(

I can relate to your situation. I’m incredibly ashamed of my current body and feel embarrassed to meet friends in person due to the significant changes I’ve undergone. However, I’m gradually working on rebuilding my confidence. It’s perfectly acceptable to express your feelings. Sometimes, letting it all out once in a while can provide relief and emotional well-being. So, don’t feel guilty for venting. But remember, you deserve love and acceptance. It’s going to be a challenging journey for you, me, and others. One thing I’ve found helpful is to stop criticizing myself. I still have those negative thoughts when I look in the mirror, but I refuse to voice them. The more I repeat these thoughts, the more I believe they’ll manifest. So, I’ve started practicing self-affirmations and praising myself for my progress. I’m taking small steps, one day at a time. I’m also making efforts to change my bad habits, even if they’re minor ones. I’m confident that with discipline, these changes will have a more significant impact. Everyone’s way is different, but if mine is kind of working right now, maybe it’ll help you too.

Thank you to everyone else who left thoughtful comments. It means a lot <3