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I have extreme body dysmorphia and think I will never be truly loved if I don’t look my best the worst trait of me that I deeply hate are my boobs since they were just growing they grew kinda saggy and it never changed I have b size with kinda saggy boobs and it’s just destroys my life and it made me so insecure since I got them I hate them soo much its literally holding me back from looking good it destroyed my whole body why couldn’t they have just been perky and I hate how I can’t change it ever and just have to accept it ???? I turned down so many relationships cause I thought if they were to see me naked they would be extremely turned off and feel disgusted and judge me for it im scared of any surgeries but I think that’s the only way I will ever feel pretty if not I will die alone it might sound dramatic but I tried my hardest always hiding my boobs as a teen and still it’s also due to trauma maybe I got touched and grabbed by my boobs as a kid by an old man and it made me super uncomfortable ever since anything that had to do with my breast :(
I’m so sorry you’re going through that :(( you are perfect the way you are, humans are so diverse and what you are insecure about someone else surely finds appealing. We are more critical on ourselves because that’s all we see 24/7 and that makes us pick apart the tiniest ‘flaws’. You should love yourself first before worrying about anyone else. Also, that is very normal anatomy, people usually wear push-up bras to seem perkier than they are but we are all human and it is normal. I hope you heal sis
I am so sorry you went through something so traumatic. I pray God instills peace into your heart, and heals your scars.
Self love is a journey which is different for everyone. You may not understand the emotions you feel currently, but God will make a way in which where you will find purpose in loving yourself.
I'm literally sobbing for you.
Do u all think a relationship between a 23 and 44 year old is normal ?
As long as they started this relationship at an age where they're considered adults (20+) then it's fine, or normal. But the age gap is crazy though hahaha
This is all my opinionnnnnnnn. I mean it makes me question some things for sure. Yeah it's perfectly legal and all but why as a 44 year old would ya wanna date a 23 year old? Like that person is in a completely different stage of their life, still learning certain things. I would want someone with the same knowledge and life experience as me or at least somewhat close to it. I'm still in my 20's and a 30 year old feels like a completely different level of adult, so 40's is definitely up there. I know when I'm in my 40's, someone in their early 20's is gonna feel like a kid lmao. Like what draws a person in their 40's to someone in their 20's is what I would ask I guess
Exactly omg
Personally, I don’t think so. Your brain isn’t even fully developed until you’re 25 and, either way, a 23yo is a BABY compared to someone that far into adulthood. If it was the same age gap but a 33yo and a 54yo, then that’s a bit better, but overall an age gap that large never sits right with me. If the gap is large enough to where one of them was an adult at the time the other was BORN, then I just get the fucking ick no matter what.
As long as the younger person wasn’t groomed as a minor by the odoer one, and they established the relationship when they were 20+, no one would care if you never said the ages. Nonetheless, it is kinda weird, cuz 23 can be considered a college student
As long as they are 2D handsome men, and the older one looks like teenager, they are fine for me.
U all this is so peak do u all irl think their could rlly men be out there letting themselves get pounded and treated like that ? I doubt it
Oh there are trust me
yes there’s man who wants me to do all that too him physically at least (⊙…⊙ )
Oh sweet summer child... They're out there but they're not as genuine and sweet as ML usually lol Most guys I've known who are into pegging are so still so selfish
I knew one but they usually just gay and and not actually into women I meant completely straight guys
U lucky girl tell me ur secrets
Oh trust me the guys I'm talking about are usually straight. That's why they're still selfish fucks lol One dude was straight af and literally all he wanted was ass play for himself, to the point it was also the only way he'd masturbate. But he had issues lol reality is never as good.
omgg I’ve heard of some men like this
he slid into my dms LOLL and I just so happened to also like what he likes (⊙…⊙ )
Very truewe have to take pegging away from some of these people