Do u all think a relationship between a 23 and 44 year old is normal ?
As long as they started this relationship at an age where they're considered adults (20+) then it's fine, or normal. But the age gap is crazy though hahaha
This is all my opinionnnnnnnn. I mean it makes me question some things for sure. Yeah it's perfectly legal and all but why as a 44 year old would ya wanna date a 23 year old? Like that person is in a completely different stage of their life, still learning certain things. I would want someone with the same knowledge and life experience as me or at least somewhat close to it. I'm still in my 20's and a 30 year old feels like a completely different level of adult, so 40's is definitely up there. I know when I'm in my 40's, someone in their early 20's is gonna feel like a kid lmao. Like what draws a person in their 40's to someone in their 20's is what I would ask I guess
Exactly omg
Personally, I don’t think so. Your brain isn’t even fully developed until you’re 25 and, either way, a 23yo is a BABY compared to someone that far into adulthood. If it was the same age gap but a 33yo and a 54yo, then that’s a bit better, but overall an age gap that large never sits right with me. If the gap is large enough to where one of them was an adult at the time the other was BORN, then I just get the fucking ick no matter what.
As long as the younger person wasn’t groomed as a minor by the odoer one, and they established the relationship when they were 20+, no one would care if you never said the ages. Nonetheless, it is kinda weird, cuz 23 can be considered a college student
As long as they are 2D handsome men, and the older one looks like teenager, they are fine for me.
my mom keeps secretly making videos or photos of me and sending it to a man much older than me that she decided I will marry some day in the future i told her how uncomfortable this makes me and how I don’t want to marry him or anyone ever but she still does it secretly idk what to do anymore I love my mom she is a great mom in many other aspects and did so much for me but she still is very controlling and misogynistic i genuinely don’t know what to do i feel so disgusting right now I’m lost
girl, that's honestly really disturbing, and i'm sorry you're going through that. loving your mom and recognizing the good she's done doesn't mean you have to accept her behavior. for now focus on your studies and becoming financially independent so you can have more control over your own life and decisions. you deserve to live somewhere your boundaries are respected. this is my genuine advice. i hope you stay strong and heal from everything you're going through.
thank u I decided to ignore it since I can’t do anything against it at this point idc if that weird man gonna goon or god knows what to these pic of me if she gonna do these I wish she would pay me atleast in exchange so I could get something out of it
Okay...I first saw this and I'm wishing this is not true because what the actual fuck is this. you're mom is supposed to be someone by your side to make you comfortable in life and I don't know how you could even love her (no judging)I only wish for her phone to be cracked and for when she shits she breathes and resets her progress this is extremely disturbing and I hope she knows what she's doing wrong. I was wondering if you can stay at a friend's or relatives place or just delete the photos and videos she records because if she doesn't I am pulling up and kidnapping you because no one deserves to be used like this and I hope that you are old enough to be able to live by yourself and if you are going to be in college apply for a different country's college. I hope u stay safe and have someone close to be able to comfort you and hold you
Im at my worst right now I dropped out of college due to depression and I currently don’t have any friends I live with my parents now tryna get a job so I can save up money hopefully move out in the future since I’m broke now and get back to uni my family doesn’t want me to move out cause they think a women doing that means she is whoring around so I will know they will disown me in the future ugh idk man I don’t want my family seeing me as whore , slut but that’s the only way I can live in peace
Man all I can say is no matter what the situation is I hope you can find a good way out of it or idk but I hope you know that no matter what I hope you can find someone there for you because there will be someone by your side. And I hope that you find an amazing job that will not tire you and a good uni that you will find friends for life and a way to get out of that family ASAP I truly wish the best for you because my family r really sexcist and I understand what u mean when they say that u will where around but im really sorry you have to go through this and ik you don't know me buti support you and i hope you can consider me as one of ur supporters
u know u hitting rock bottom if u ask for help on this site it affected so much to the point I thought about selling pics online so I could get back at my mom and make money faster but I know that will just ruin me and my family it means allot thank u for replying truly
That's the most disgusting thing a women can ever do to another women, plus a mother to their daughter. Just because you love your mother doesn't mean your mother has right to cross the boundaries of your privacy. Plus taking photos and videos of you without your consent and sending them to an older man you've already said you don't want to marry is controlling behavior. Why you love your mother is also because of what she has done for you and I can tell how you're feeling. As a daughter you love your mother very and you're very gratitude towards her for everything she has done to you but as a woman, you don't like her. You don't like the way she cross herself.
Talk with your mother for the last time. Tell her how she makes you feel and how you feel, be very honest. Look very serious and all and if she try to deny it or shove it off yell or shout at her to make her understand just for this last time...and if she doesn't then call the police. She is your mother, yes, but the thing she is doing to you is close to a monster does to a child.
I know this is weird but is there any manwha that represents child sa in a realistic and non romanticised way where the victim deals with its trauma and psychological effects but eventually heals I need smth to comfort and heal me since I experienced smth like that too it bothers me and I never talked about its been years and instead of dealing with it I have ignored and numbed myself from that incident that happened years ago i pretended like it never happened but it’s still haunts me I just need smth for comfort now cause I can’t sleep sorry I know this a disgusting and sensitive topic
Im sorry to hear that. I can't personally reco anything that u like but here's a similar thread who is looking for the same thing
https://www.reddit.com/r/manga/comments/1mrxglv/recommendations_for_a_manga_which_deals_with/
Can someone recommend me a toxic or rough yuri smut I need smth freaky with a rough masc or top idk
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_adore_you_teacher_official/
The top isn't masc but is DEFINITELY toxic and rough
thank u
Got u happy pride month monarch
I dropped out of Uni cause of wrong major choice and now taking a break before I go back again but I feel so lost empty depressed I have no idea what new major to choose I definitely want a degree to be safe for future but I just feel so anxious and I have no friends i just feel so behind in life and super lost :(
I know it's not easy, but you are do young, I'm sure. Just take your time to discover what you like
Hey, maybe it's your little brain telling you you're not gonna survive without a degree. Have some fun while you're still on a break and then when the time comes closer that's when you decide. Not everything in life is about academics or work. You can always find a new hobby or interest, and even meet new people online or in real life while you still have free time. Just enjoy your time as a teenager/adult as life isn't really that long to worry about everything going wrong.
Maybe academics are not for you, but there are always trades to learn that are just as useful as a college degree and may not be taken over by robots in the future.
If you're scared of choosing another major that you don't enjoy, you can instead focus on what kind of work you wanna get like: work with flexible hours vs work with a fixed schedule, work that you do solo vs with team work, lab vs office vs studio vs classroom, etc etc etc, work with good social environment vs work with good salary, work with a lot of instruction vs work that gives a lot of autonomy, work with a lot of structure vs work that allows for creativity, or risk, work with the public vs for "faceless people".
These can all seem obvious and not even mutually exclusive (bc some aren't), but realizing what you prioritize, what your work VALUES are can help you make a more informed decision that leaves you satisfied long term, bc if you decide that your job needs to be in a hospital, needs to allow for creativity, needs to have fixed hours, etc. maybe you're looking for research in the medical field, and not being a doctor (an example). And realizing that you want a job that leaves you feeling achieved and has room for promotion, BUT that you prefer a job that leaves feeling achieved more than one that allows for promotion will also help you pick a career path.
Maybe this won't help you be satisfied with your next major, assuming you decide to return to college, but it'll help you stay motivated (since you have a clear goal in mind) and, who knows, maybe in your soul search you'll find options you didn't consider before like degrees that seemed absurd, trades, or niche jobs like fixing piano strings. Look up the Work Values Inventory if the topic seems like it'd be helpful.
Now, taking a break is important to allow reflection: what didn't you like about your major?, how can you avoid that moving forward?, if that aspect is unavoidable what can you do to mitigate its effects?, etc., college isn't easy, becoming unmotivated is common, dropping out is also common, so don't focus on your "failures" as much as on what you can improve! Find your strengths (i.e. maybe your good at research, talking in public, organizing info, designing appealing work, etc.) and lean into them, it can be massively motivating!
As long as you prepare for the next enrolment period by working through what this year meant, and what you wanna achieve, you'll be on the right path! Good luck, I'm cheering for you!
Eng isn't my first language btw, if smth here didn't make sense feel free to ask :)
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Are there fellow people in their early 20s on this site as well I feel like the majority are teens here :/
21 right here
yes
Turning 20 in 6 days
twenteen one here too (yes teen lmao)
Been here since 15 Now im 21
Been here since like 14 and now I'm lwk 20
I’m 22, been reading on here since I was a teen though
Turning 22 soon :(
...24 ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
29 and been here since I was 15 u will be fine although I don't comment much cus it's Abit of a waste of time
Can someone recommend me a manwha where the female lead is treated like a literal goddess like the male lead is deeply in love and yearns for her a green flag pls ?
Happy New Year’s Everyone I planned to read less manwhamanga for 2026 I kinds need to lock in ☠
Tried it failed every time... But i'm with you man WOohoo
I have extreme body dysmorphia and think I will never be truly loved if I don’t look my best the worst trait of me that I deeply hate are my boobs since they were just growing they grew kinda saggy and it never changed I have b size with kinda saggy boobs and it’s just destroys my life and it made me so insecure since I got them I hate them soo much its literally holding me back from looking good it destroyed my whole body why couldn’t they have just been perky and I hate how I can’t change it ever and just have to accept it ???? I turned down so many relationships cause I thought if they were to see me naked they would be extremely turned off and feel disgusted and judge me for it im scared of any surgeries but I think that’s the only way I will ever feel pretty if not I will die alone it might sound dramatic but I tried my hardest always hiding my boobs as a teen and still it’s also due to trauma maybe I got touched and grabbed by my boobs as a kid by an old man and it made me super uncomfortable ever since anything that had to do with my breast :(
I’m so sorry you’re going through that :(( you are perfect the way you are, humans are so diverse and what you are insecure about someone else surely finds appealing. We are more critical on ourselves because that’s all we see 24/7 and that makes us pick apart the tiniest ‘flaws’. You should love yourself first before worrying about anyone else. Also, that is very normal anatomy, people usually wear push-up bras to seem perkier than they are but we are all human and it is normal. I hope you heal sis
I am so sorry you went through something so traumatic. I pray God instills peace into your heart, and heals your scars.
Self love is a journey which is different for everyone. You may not understand the emotions you feel currently, but God will make a way in which where you will find purpose in loving yourself.
I'm literally sobbing for you.