girl, that's honestly really disturbing, and i'm sorry you're going through that. loving your mom and recognizing the good she's done doesn't mean you have to accept her behavior. for now focus on your studies and becoming financially independent so you can have more control over your own life and decisions. you deserve to live somewhere your boundaries are respected. this is my genuine advice. i hope you stay strong and heal from everything you're going through.
thank u I decided to ignore it since I can’t do anything against it at this point idc if that weird man gonna goon or god knows what to these pic of me if she gonna do these I wish she would pay me atleast in exchange so I could get something out of it
Okay...I first saw this and I'm wishing this is not true because what the actual fuck is this. you're mom is supposed to be someone by your side to make you comfortable in life and I don't know how you could even love her (no judging)I only wish for her phone to be cracked and for when she shits she breathes and resets her progress this is extremely disturbing and I hope she knows what she's doing wrong. I was wondering if you can stay at a friend's or relatives place or just delete the photos and videos she records because if she doesn't I am pulling up and kidnapping you because no one deserves to be used like this and I hope that you are old enough to be able to live by yourself and if you are going to be in college apply for a different country's college. I hope u stay safe and have someone close to be able to comfort you and hold you
Im at my worst right now I dropped out of college due to depression and I currently don’t have any friends I live with my parents now tryna get a job so I can save up money hopefully move out in the future since I’m broke now and get back to uni my family doesn’t want me to move out cause they think a women doing that means she is whoring around so I will know they will disown me in the future ugh idk man I don’t want my family seeing me as whore , slut but that’s the only way I can live in peace
Man all I can say is no matter what the situation is I hope you can find a good way out of it or idk but I hope you know that no matter what I hope you can find someone there for you because there will be someone by your side. And I hope that you find an amazing job that will not tire you and a good uni that you will find friends for life and a way to get out of that family ASAP I truly wish the best for you because my family r really sexcist and I understand what u mean when they say that u will where around but im really sorry you have to go through this and ik you don't know me buti support you and i hope you can consider me as one of ur supporters
u know u hitting rock bottom if u ask for help on this site it affected so much to the point I thought about selling pics online so I could get back at my mom and make money faster but I know that will just ruin me and my family it means allot thank u for replying truly
That's the most disgusting thing a women can ever do to another women, plus a mother to their daughter. Just because you love your mother doesn't mean your mother has right to cross the boundaries of your privacy. Plus taking photos and videos of you without your consent and sending them to an older man you've already said you don't want to marry is controlling behavior. Why you love your mother is also because of what she has done for you and I can tell how you're feeling. As a daughter you love your mother very and you're very gratitude towards her for everything she has done to you but as a woman, you don't like her. You don't like the way she cross herself.
Talk with your mother for the last time. Tell her how she makes you feel and how you feel, be very honest. Look very serious and all and if she try to deny it or shove it off yell or shout at her to make her understand just for this last time...and if she doesn't then call the police. She is your mother, yes, but the thing she is doing to you is close to a monster does to a child.
my mom keeps secretly making videos or photos of me and sending it to a man much older than me that she decided I will marry some day in the future i told her how uncomfortable this makes me and how I don’t want to marry him or anyone ever but she still does it secretly idk what to do anymore I love my mom she is a great mom in many other aspects and did so much for me but she still is very controlling and misogynistic i genuinely don’t know what to do i feel so disgusting right now I’m lost