i have to disagree with a part of ur comment. I agree that they all did try their best but his home environments WERE INCREDIBILY UNHEALTHY for a child. From an adult's point of view, life happens and no one is perfect but from a child's point of view, he's been passed around and was exposed to adult relation ship issues as a young kid. And the adults at the group home definitely didn't try their best lol what im saying is, both sets of his parents 'tried" but that doesn't mean he had a "decent" life and they ALL scarrd him
Being abandoned and tossed multiple times that young is not having it good, you don’t need to be physically abused to have it bad. His mom neglected him. That couple just tossed him away despite the fact that they established a bond and raised him.
He never had security and that’s what made him jaded.
1. First family are teenagers, poor, and depress. They want to better themselves, better the situation they are in, and even tried to get him back 2 times already.
2. Second family has toxic fake relationship, the mother mention toxic dependency on him as child, and she doesn't want to let him be in that situation, so she let him go.
3. It's literally a home with packed strangers, it's clearly not a home where you find love. Even then, it's decent enough to be considered a living situation that many homeless people would even hope for.
I'm not defending them at all, if they truly love him they would have try HARDER. They aren't the best people, but they aren't the worse either. I just personally feels sympathy for their situations and actions. If my family is one of these, I'm just not gonna resent them but I would be depress over it.. and it's okay to resent them, to each their own
Same to you
1. First family are teenagers, poor, and depress. They want to better themselves, better the situation they are in, and even tried to get him back 2 times already.
2. Second family has toxic fake relationship, the mother mention toxic dependency on him as child, and she doesn't want to let him be in that situation, so she let him go.
3. It's literally a home with packed strangers, it's clearly not a home where you find love. Even then, it's decent enough to be considered a living situation that many homeless people would even hope for.
I'm not defending them at all, if they truly love him they would have try HARDER. They aren't the best people, but they aren't the worse either. I just personally feels sympathy for their situations and actions. If my family is one of these, I'm just not gonna resent them but I would be depress over it.. and it's okay to resent them, to each their own
Damn, that made me think of my situation. My mom was a crackhead, I went to a foster home for a few years. Lovely parents, more like grandparents, but I didn't want to leave. Ended up with my father side of the family. He was already deported so I didn't get to meet him. Then eventually ended up with my mom. While she tried her best she had 5 kids and had to work so not much time to give us her attention. I left home as soon as I could.
I hope you are in a better place. Not having a place to call a permanent home must be tough, but I'm sure you will have okay. Best of luck
What a sad pass.. but honestly all the adults in his life tried their best. I'm not gonna say they are abusive or unhealthy cause they aren't, they did try to be there for him but it's just not enough. This just shows you can have a 'decent' life and it will still fuced with you mentally
Being a second choice to these 'families', not being their priority from day 1.. is what broke him. They never truly care for him beyond necessary needs. Only 1 person had shown unconditional love and he wants that