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Kinda random, but would you ask your partner to test before sleeping with them? Especially...

Mima July 1, 2026 10:26 am

Kinda random, but would you ask your partner to test before sleeping with them? Especially one that's been around. I def would, but it's a sensitive topic, so it needs to be brought up in a specific way

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    Hong Kihoons side bitch July 1, 2026 10:37 am

    Yes, he’s, definitely yes. Hurt feelings last a couple weeks, STDs/ HIVlast forever…

    nona July 1, 2026 11:28 am

    Is not even a would, is a should. It's sensitive yeah but we are all responsible adults here aware of what an STD is. The best way to go about it is to also do your testing if you have been active as well, and once both know nothing is wrong go ahead with it. I haven't even done the did for like a year with my partner, and they got tested no prob.

    i love men with neck tattoos July 1, 2026 11:52 am

    In my culture though no one has sex before marriage, we still have to take some tests before the marriage becomes acceptable. It’s a nice thing honestly because you never know what truly happens behind closed doors

    kettunen July 1, 2026 12:28 pm

    It shouldnt be sensitive topic at all.. this should be the norm if you have had several sexual partners. Just ask: when you were last tested? Huh.. so I would like you/us to get a tested before we become intimate.

    nona July 1, 2026 12:38 pm
    It shouldnt be sensitive topic at all.. this should be the norm if you have had several sexual partners. Just ask: when you were last tested? Huh.. so I would like you/us to get a tested before we become intima... kettunen

    Exactly, if you care about them you don't have a reason to feel offended about wanting them to be safe

    kettunen July 1, 2026 12:41 pm
    Exactly, if you care about them you don't have a reason to feel offended about wanting them to be safe nona

    Its weird to be comfortable enough to sleep with bunch of people but not about talking about it