As an ace person I can totally relate to your experience. Some people really try to force their "normal" onto others without a thread of understanding or empathy. We are all different people and societal standards are arbitrary, we all deserve space to live our lives even if it looks different. I also can't understand the allosexual experience of others and how they see love or sex, that doesn't mean I'm going to treat them like they are "making the wrong choices". I'm sorry you have to deal with this bs, you're not alone
Fr, the amount of time I've heard "well how would you know if you haven't tried it" or "you just havent found the right person". Or just making up future fantasy scenarios where I have children. Like wtf
As some whose in their late twenties and never been in a relationship and is gay, the constant need for others to tell you when are you dating and that you need to find a person of opposite sex to marry so my family can be happy is so infuriating and exhausting. My family has accepted me but it really does anger me when I hear that they I think I’m confused because haven’t been with opposite sex or that I’m traumatized and that’s why I’m confused from my SA, or that I just need to go out with the opposite sex now and have kids already, and are constantly asking me when is that happening when I have constantly remind them I’m not interested in that type of relationship it will be with a same sex partner and they just laugh it off ignore me and that the same convo another day. People really do forget being gay isn’t a choice it’s you as a person who shows love in their own way just like everyone else. So yeah seeing this is heartbreaking, no matter how many times you tell someone your truth they are only to go by what they believe should be true. I hope MC and ML go to the wedding and put his brother to shame of how big of a homophobic asswhole he is others.