I feel the same, these tropes are so overused right now. You may know them but here are a few stories that I like to read especially when I'm tired of the same plot all the time :
- https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_prince_doesn_t_cry_from_mere_onions/ -> This is not actually isekai but it is very good, the fact that it happens in the countryside make it very different from usual stories !
- https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/truck_driver_tag_team_match/ -> Funny story that makes fun of the genre, this time our transmigrator is a 50 yo man in his truck, don't look for too much romance but there are some good emotional moments despite comedy
- https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_stepmother_s_m_rchen/ -> that's a classic in isekai genre, it's extremely well written with complex characters, I can only recommend
- https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/miss_not_so_sidekick/
-> You want a funny FL who doesn't care about being ridiculous and has her own fun during the whole story, go for this one
- https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kill_the_villainess/
A story with a female lead who actually wants to go back to her own world and doesn't care at all about the tragic past of the og male leads, she takes no bs and is a very strong character who never gives up her wishes to go home
- https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/beware_of_the_villainess/
This one is for all the time you got annoyed by the shitty action of mls being excused for no real reason, this FL is not only fun, she also knows how to beat creepy guys and make them apologize for their bad behaviour
You may have read some of them, but they are really good

this kind of story template is getting too overused and unoriginal. its always the same thing that fl gets isekaid as a villainess, tries to survive and change the original story plot, gets confused why the ml is suddenly obsessed with her
any manhwa recoms for a change of pace? that doesnt have this kind of storyline