Both are the problem but I think bottom is more of the problem he is too secretive with his worries and not too open with the top when his top priority is for the top to get his memories back like i do get the pheromone thingy is a sensitive topic but he literally is ur husband and now he is overthinking if the top only loves his body when the bottom literally acts like just a fuck buddy himself too i get both are trying to be considerate with each other by not prying in too much but LIKE
and really u cant blame the top to act like that when his last memory is them being fuck buddies and his young self so of course he is gonna be immature its not like he chose to forget his memories and his babies that he cant connect to when memories are gone gone
Both are the problem but I think bottom is more of the problem he is too secretive with his worries and not too open with the top when his top priority is for the top to get his memories back like i do get the pheromone thingy is a sensitive topic but he literally is ur husband and now he is overthinking if the top only loves his body when the bottom literally acts like just a fuck buddy himself too i get both are trying to be considerate with each other by not prying in too much but LIKE
and really u cant blame the top to act like that when his last memory is them being fuck buddies and his young self so of course he is gonna be immature its not like he chose to forget his memories and his babies that he cant connect to when memories are gone gone