To be entirely fair to BDSM / Roleplay one of the major things people like is when their "rejections" or "protests" are ignored, which is why there are actual safe words for many that aren't no/stop/etc bc they want that ignored for the sake of the kink
Thats true but they never potray it like that, there are never any safe words in these manhwas and mangas thats why most of them tethers on the edge of dubcon
I think part of that just stems from the idea that we're the readers who understand this is fiction, so we can enjoy the dubcon without needing safe-words.
I do hope we get proper BDSM stories but I sorta see why we don't have limits or anything in a lot of them.
As someone who practices CNC, there’s an understanding (after our initial conversation about it) that my “no” “stop” “I can’t” “no more” are all to be ignored. Listen to my body and my safeword if I say it but that’s it. I set the terms long long before we started but there’s no need to reaffirm it every time. It’s our understanding that I am giving cnc consent unless I say otherwise. There’s also such a thing as “free use” which is cnc but to the max. Anywhere, anytime, you are free to use. Again, you agree to it beforehand and then that’s the rule unless you say otherwise. I practice BDSM. This story is 4 chapters long. We are getting the smallest snapshot of their sex lives and it’s definitely not enough to make assumptions about how it’s noncon or dubcon when THE UKE WORE THE LINGERIE AND RAN IN THE RAIN TO GET THERE! He knew what was up. He’s a large man and considering “young master” isn’t “master”, he has a boss. If he truly had an issue with this, he would go to his boss and refuse to work with young master anymore the first time this sort of inappropriate behaviour started. He didn’t because he wants it. He’s proactive in it. He prepped himself AND cleared their schedules to have more time together. Just from that alone, he’s enthusiastically consenting.
Its a good fwop material but this type of things ruin the bdsm image, there’s no bondage here but definitely discipline and kinks and these people never know how to write it, stop and no meabs something