Please help me find this BL

Hi guys its been years since ive been here and i have a distinct memory of this BL that kind of shook up my world. In my head, it was so amazing and i would like to relive that. My issue is that i forgot what its called… i only remember specific scenes. For instance, the guys meet because the lead is accidentally dropping his laundry into the other guys balcony. The older guy wore glasses and in a specific smut scene he took em off. Theres also this scene where the younger guy was washing dishes and the older guy came up from behind him. I know this sounds super vague and obscure but im hoping someone who has read the BL could help me put an end to my search. Please help!!