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Unrealistic friendship

Cat July 17, 2026 4:33 pm

These Japanese mangas always be showing the most unrealistic friendships ever.
Friends who are always concerned about you. Friends who would literally sacrifice their lives for you. Like be so fr. NO ONE CARES BRO.. NO ONE GIVES A FUCK!!!
This kind of friendship doesn't inspire me. It gives me false hope.Reading these friendship stories just makes my heart ache. It's like pouring salt into a wound that's been there since childhood—my yearning for a deep, genuine friendship.

From childhood to adulthood, my so-called "friends" only used me whenever they needed something and then tossed me aside.

Always fake friends.
Always one-sided friendships.
Never gave a fuck about me.

I'm dropping this.

I hate friendship stories that trigger this yearning when I already know I'll never have that kind of friendship in my life, and I've already accepted it.

Sorry for the rant.

Responses
    Feather August 27, 2026 8:29 am

    Get better friend

    Cat August 27, 2026 10:08 am
    Get better friend Feather

    Then tell me Where can i find better friend

    Gabbie September 6, 2026 12:23 pm

    Uhmm... there really are friends like that tho, when I was sick and vomiting all over, my friends helped me, even when I'm not in the right head space they are there for me, it's not to the point that they replace my family but we have a relationship like one.

    It's not always going to be like that, I also experienced a lot of betrayals before I found my friends who can be my 'ride or die'... that will also depend on you and how you associate with them. These people you speak of are horrible, and they are not worth it for you to keep holding onto that hate, the best you can do about that situation is to be indifferent to them, go explore the world for better friends.

    However, when you have friends you need to have the mindset that although you are friends, they also have their own lives, and you have yours, they don't have to be constantly be there for you, tho when you need them they can be, and when they need you, you should also try to be there for them. If there is a chance that they can't be there, that's okay, you're friends because you care for one another, you support one another, you're not friends because of the benefits that come with it.

    I do hope you find someone to be friends withヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    Cat September 6, 2026 2:09 pm
    Uhmm... there really are friends like that tho, when I was sick and vomiting all over, my friends helped me, even when I'm not in the right head space they are there for me, it's not to the point that they repl... Gabbie

    I actually agree with you. Healthy friendships probably do exist—I just haven’t experienced one myself. When your every friendship you've had ends up being one-sided or disappointing, you naturally start protecting yourself and expecting less from people. So when I said I’ve lost trust in friendship, I was speaking from my own experience, not saying nobody can have genuine friends. I’m glad you found yours though.

    Gabbie September 6, 2026 2:54 pm
    I actually agree with you. Healthy friendships probably do exist—I just haven’t experienced one myself. When your every friendship you've had ends up being one-sided or disappointing, you naturally start pr... Cat

    Aww, your time will come