being autistic doesn't mean your partner has to change everything to accommodate you, period. a partnership is a partnership regardless of who/how you are, there's give and take on both your parts, and you have to recognize when a bad habit needs to be fixed bc it has an actual negative effect on your person/the relationship vs when something is just annoying. i don't get why y'all are making passes for sangwoo saying it's bc he's autistic or bc jaeyoung is in fact texting wrong. it doesn't matter!! the point here is that sangwoo establishes the majority of the rules and always expects jaeyoung to be the person to change. it can start with the texting now, who's to say it won't escalate to how he dresses, who he can talk to, what he can do with his own life?
sangwoo has an issue with flexibility and acceptance and he still needs to own up to his bad traits' negative effect on others even when he's autistic. like god knows I've had to be corrected so many times before by the people I've hurt, and I've apologized, changed, and be able to cherish my loved ones and better navigate social situations for it. istg jaeyoung better not have to relent and accommodate sangwoo again bruh
being autistic doesn't mean your partner has to change everything to accommodate you, period. a partnership is a partnership regardless of who/how you are, there's give and take on both your parts, and you have to recognize when a bad habit needs to be fixed bc it has an actual negative effect on your person/the relationship vs when something is just annoying. i don't get why y'all are making passes for sangwoo saying it's bc he's autistic or bc jaeyoung is in fact texting wrong. it doesn't matter!! the point here is that sangwoo establishes the majority of the rules and always expects jaeyoung to be the person to change. it can start with the texting now, who's to say it won't escalate to how he dresses, who he can talk to, what he can do with his own life?
sangwoo has an issue with flexibility and acceptance and he still needs to own up to his bad traits' negative effect on others even when he's autistic. like god knows I've had to be corrected so many times before by the people I've hurt, and I've apologized, changed, and be able to cherish my loved ones and better navigate social situations for it. istg jaeyoung better not have to relent and accommodate sangwoo again bruh