bruh he's been through so much. i get that feeling of attachment he has with nanjo. dang hope he doesn't die though.
Yes it's making me anxious too but I think Mokyeon really loves Nanjo & given how he grew up, he is even more of a mess. And from my personal experience too(after having to part ways after 10 years) , I think this crashout is actually so real, most people go insane first, they breakdown and it feels like the end but it slowly gets better after days or months and then comes the turn to pick themselves up and do better. Sometimes people even go in circles. Had it been another person who was slightly mature and had a better past, they'd have handled it better. Despite Mokyeon shortcomings, his feelings are totally valid and everyone handles things differently too. his is just how I saw and understood things, let me know what you think
Yeah Ofc I empathise with him but nothing he's been through justifies or even explains how he treated Nanjo he's wallowing in despair of his making
I think he won't die but still despite knowing that it isn't any better it's so hard to watch him suffer and his heartbreak is breaking my heart too
It's a nice perspective! Honestly I don't think that Mokyeon THINKS he is in love but the reason I can't buy it is cuz of the short time span he's known that guy maybe. i just can't be convinced. In my own experiences of love, I found that being productive and moving on with life helped me ignore the crippling sadness so perhaps I'm projecting
*I meant to say I DO think Mokyeon THINKS he's in love
Haha yes, I get you! We both are seeing it from our individual experiences too and you are not wrong in thinking that. Everyone handles grief differently and I hope Mok could get better soon. I think productivity will come to him later, he isn't on that level of maturity and stability yet. Also excluding all this I hope you are better now and that you've healed. I agree, moving & being productive helps, I realised it a Lil later in my experience tho, I had no energy to even move properly at first lol, I regret not handling it better, it was similar to Mok though I'm wayyyy better now
Ofc someone with Mok’s background and childhood trauma would fall into pure obsession and toxic attachment! Honestly, you can’t even blame him he never had a safe haven or anyone to shelter him, and he got abandoned by the very people he trusted most (both his biological and adoptive parents). His concept of love is completely warped; all he’s searching for is acceptance and a safe space. So when he saw that Nanjo was the perfect vessel for all those bottled-up feelings, he attached himself instantly. He tried literally everything—rational or not—to keep him all to himself, even if it meant hurting himself or the people around him (like Sunhwa) just to get what he wanted.
Is it just me who is feeling this unnecessary anxiety for Mokyeon to get his bum ass up clean up his act, get a job or atleast be productive the reason you can't do that is because you AREN'T in love, you are just crippled by obsession. True love will make you want to be better