rather than saying it's romanticizing gaslighting, i think this series is doing the usual romanticizing of obsessive, manipulative, and boundary-crossing behavior from love interests.
feels like "accept your own oppression" propaganda of the "this guy is bad, but other dudes are worse, so stick with your least bad option/pick your poison" variety. and then you have the people excusing suah's nonconsensual scenting, assault, and rape because juhyeok wouldn't have an athletic career otherwise (really?) and it's apparently better to be raped by a guy you know who is obsessed with you than some random stranger???
it's irritating because this started with a genuinely interesting conflict, but the way juhyeok's character and problems have been overlooked and shallowly written and the clear suah favoritism all so the creator can include sex scenes is hilariously disappointing. it's criminal how little focus was given to their families and the drama potential of how they were raised conflicting with their secondary genders. maybe it's being saved, but it's a weird choice if it's all meant to show up later. would have loved to see more backstory that isn't just meant to make you feel sorry for suah. maybe even flesh them out as characters... crazy thought, I know.
in the early chapters, people got on juhyeok's case about his prejudice against omegas, and thus being an omega himself, but all of suah's behavior and the situations he's been in so far has justified juhyeok's negativity towards and rejection of his presentation.
Author does what author wants stay mad lol
and I do what I want, so let's all be mad together! ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I actually was interested at first but it seems it is again just romantasicing gaslighting...
Ignoring someones No until they say yes out of desperation is emotinal abuse, not love.
I guess its still possible for the plot to come around but personally I am not hopefull and rather not spend more time on this.