i get ppl mention the top bottoms for straight guy point but thats actually something i could support seeing his backstory. being scared of bottoming especially after that pain is valid but can also change after meeting someone who you can feel good with (tho i dont really like how that started). my biggest ugh is the yet again use of 'im straight except for you'. the other guy admitting he thinks the top is actually bisexual but just hasnt come to terms with it was a nice addition and im glad it was said but it also just feels so... diminishing to just keep referring to yourself as straight, both to your partner as well as yourself. i get irl this can happen and it will take time for some people but most stories that add this dont do it from that point of view and just add it as a line to make their same sex partner look more 'exotic' its kinda annoying me whenever i see it tbh. especially when the main guy is vocal about his fear that the other dude is just gonna one up and leave him one bc "i told you all this time i was straight right, i wanna be with a woman". glad it didnt happen in this one but i kinda needed to let the thought out anyways haha.
i get ppl mention the top bottoms for straight guy point but thats actually something i could support seeing his backstory. being scared of bottoming especially after that pain is valid but can also change after meeting someone who you can feel good with (tho i dont really like how that started). my biggest ugh is the yet again use of 'im straight except for you'. the other guy admitting he thinks the top is actually bisexual but just hasnt come to terms with it was a nice addition and im glad it was said but it also just feels so... diminishing to just keep referring to yourself as straight, both to your partner as well as yourself. i get irl this can happen and it will take time for some people but most stories that add this dont do it from that point of view and just add it as a line to make their same sex partner look more 'exotic' its kinda annoying me whenever i see it tbh. especially when the main guy is vocal about his fear that the other dude is just gonna one up and leave him one bc "i told you all this time i was straight right, i wanna be with a woman". glad it didnt happen in this one but i kinda needed to let the thought out anyways haha.