what sucks some places rely on the husband to get permission to perform epidural and even the omg don't get me started on that slit shit docs sometimes do for the husband that's body horror shit I am someone who never wants to get pregnant or do anything with children but k have sm respect for people who do go through this but don't make it their life's purpose like omg it makes me a woman or it's my purpose like don't start

labor pain sounds like hell (my sis almost broke my hand during contractions when i went as mental support)... i'm so glad there are quite a few pain-relieving methods for pregnant ppl in our era (i hope everyone who wants it can get access to it and won't be disregarded or ridiculed for their choices)