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It’s 2026 and still with this BS

LemonPyong August 8, 2026 3:38 am

I have, I will, I am, and I won’t stop bitching about this unfair dynamic in yaoi/bl or even some heterosexual manhwas, especially the mainstream/popular ones.

I hate how the Top/ML/“Man in the relationship” is almost ALWAYS experienced in sex, while the Bottom/MC/FL/“Girl in the relationship” is often—if not always portrayed as inexperienced, pure, virgins…

So you’re telling me, Dohyun has had an incredibly promiscuous life during his tutoring days and even before entering university, and Wooyeon doesn’t??

I really wished some authors would let Bottoms be more “experimental”…
When Wooyeon finally found his confidence, we could’ve gotten a more fitting situation especially with the title “Alpha Trauma”, like Wooyeon trying to get to know himself and recklessly indulging in a promiscuous night life with men that looks similar to Dohyun only to be traumatized because they’re not as “gentle”.

Something like that, but instead we’re presented with this timid lovesick cutie who deserves the world…

Even now I still can’t feel Dohyun’s “love” or “devotion” for Wooyeon.
He literally only started realizing his feelings when he finally met the mature, cute, physically fit Wooyeon in University. So i can help but think he only likes Wooyeon now because he’s prettier and not fat.

Dojyun even had a crush on the other Omega (from Omega Complex) in his first year in University…

I don’t know,,, it just feels icky. I know he said it was merely a fleeting crush, but imagine this, if that crush actually returned his feelings (not genuinely but out of whim), would Dohyun even pay any attention to Wooyeon even after reuniting in University?

I hope they touch ok this…
Like Wooyeon asking Dohyun about his last sexual relationships, because he feels jealous or he feels insecure. I want them to talk about this whole situation.

Because right now, I am 100% skeptical about Dohyun’s so called “love”.
I need his POV.

Anyway, that’s it for my rants.
I just hope to find some popular manhwas with experienced bottoms, not because they were raped, or forced into it, but because they WANTED to.
This experience top x virgin bottoms is mostly common amongst manhwas featuring Asian characters, probably because of the conservative stigma that “females (in this case bottoms) should remain pure for their man”.

Responses
    gg_253 August 8, 2026 4:08 am

    the only one in the commments speaking the truth. preach op. also if you want some experienced bottoms recs, "Hit me hard" is pretty popular these days and also pretty funny from what I have read of it (only read s1). also check out "Don't lie"

    cassiopeia August 8, 2026 4:12 am

    Can’t think straight and Part time partner are nice bc the bottoms are both experienced in casual hookups like the tops. I also don’t like when they do the whole “mc/passive partner is inexperienced trope.”

    LemonPyong August 8, 2026 6:17 am
    the only one in the commments speaking the truth. preach op. also if you want some experienced bottoms recs, "Hit me hard" is pretty popular these days and also pretty funny from what I have read of it (only re... gg_253

    Omg thanks gurly boo
    I’r always found their situation in unfair.
    Wooyeon often takes the initiative, even orchestrating a situation to squeeze out a confession from Dohyun.

    And now people are going loco because “he’s so hot”…

    But I feel icky…
    All of Dohyun’s “firsts” have already been taken; sex, kiss, relationship, love.
    Yet, all of Wooyeon’s firsts are from Dohyun…
    So fucking unfair.

    Also thanks for the reco kween

    LemonPyong August 8, 2026 6:17 am
    Can’t think straight and Part time partner are nice bc the bottoms are both experienced in casual hookups like the tops. I also don’t like when they do the whole “mc/passive partner is inexperienced trope... cassiopeia

    Omgosh thanks clock it ma’am
    Thanks for the tecos~ will definitely ready it later

    gg_253 August 8, 2026 6:26 am
    Omg thanks gurly boo I’r always found their situation in unfair.Wooyeon often takes the initiative, even orchestrating a situation to squeeze out a confession from Dohyun.And now people are going loco becaus... LemonPyong

    ofc! youre welcome bbg~ ask me for recs or for having long discussions about tropes or anything anytime.

    LemonPyong August 8, 2026 6:29 am
    ofc! youre welcome bbg~ ask me for recs or for having long discussions about tropes or anything anytime. gg_253

    Omgosh will do queen!

    I’ll follow you