lavender marriages are when a girl and a guy get married in order to hide that one or two of them is gay. this cant be a lavender marriage if they are both men. it could, however, definitely be a fake marriage to just cover up ml’s subgender or a marriage of convenience with no love to boost their careers.
I’m aware of what it was alluding to, but a Lavender marriage is between a man and a woman (either one queer) who marry for convenience or security to hide their sexuality and to visually conform to heteronormative standards. Those are two gay men, and believing a perceived Alpha x Omega to be anywhere near equivalent is ignorant. God I hate how A/B/O is just the patriarchy repackaged and adds nothing but a normalcy of queerness while still upholding heteronormativity.

grl ik a lavender marriage when I see one they both got their own side chicks