Hey, I just wanted to tell you that evb has their own path, and you don't have to find your own right away just because you're in your 20s. Society normalized being stable wayyyy too early. When you truly think about it 20years is actually nothing, you're still seen as young and not eldery when you're 45. Life is actually soooo long, don't give up so early!! It's probably not easy right now and feel lonely and hellish, but don't be so harsh on yourself. Even if you're alone right now, you will find your people one day, no matter how long it takes. And even if your family gave up on you, don't give up or yourself or it will really be over. It's not gonna take one day, nor a month, it will be hard and probably long, but as long as you want to try, and actually try, it will get better ! This may sound like empty words but it genuinely do get better, and when it will do, the happiness you'll feel will be worth all the hardships you went through in order to get better. Listen to upbeat songs, consume lighthearted contents, do things that make you happy, start going on walks little by little, uplift yourself everyday... and don't stay on social media for too long, shit really impacts your mental health in every way possible.
Im sorry if I sounded insensitive or unhelpful at some parts, and genuinely pray that you'll get better. Never give up on yourself!!! And always keep in mind that you're the most important person of your world, and you gotta cherish them and take care of them in every way you can. Stay safe
thank u it really means allot to see someone actually take the time to read and reply thank u allot truly
Dw it's not the end of the world. Focus on changing your mindset and how you view yourself. The world is full of ppl who want to see the worst in ppl so at the very least let yourself be the one constant person that loves you. There are plenty of other people that drop of of uni and are in your situation so plz don't think that this is the end of the road. Everybody has different paths and different times. Life is not a race, so it's ok to take it easy and focus on yourself. Sometimes you need to be comfortable with your own presence before being able to accept other people into your life. Right now it might seem like you're all alone and that no one is willing to lend a hand, so the best thing to do is to give yourself that hand. Try going to the park and taking pictures, catching a movie, going to a concert, learning a new hobby.. these are all things you can learn to do alone while also being able to talk to people around you if you feel confident enough. Abt your family, try to open up with them Abt how you feel. Idk know your family's relationship so only do it if you feel comfortable and if they turn a blind eye or make you feel even worse than they are not good people. Life is all about ups and downs all you can do is pick yourself up, and most of all it's ok to feel these things and stay stagnant for a while just remember to keep moving forward when you're ready and don't give up yet bc life has a funny way of making the best things in life awfully difficult to get. Regrets are always gonna be present so do your best to do things you know you won't regret. You should try listening to music cleaning your space, watching a video while cooking, looking at the sky for a couple of minutes each day while reflecting on yourself, small changes that can help make chores that are difficult to do while having depression more digestable. Listen it's ok to cry, cry all you want let it all out each day and give yourself some sympathy and it might just help clear your mind.
It's really nothing dw<3 I hope I have been of help even a little bit!!
Everyone has that time in their life and I understand it, I don’t really have the best advice but tbh I’m not sure if your a religious person but tbh you only life life once and you should try to make that your best one.
I have hit rock bottom I’m in my early 20s no idea wha to do anymore in my life never been so lost and failing in life I dropped out of uni couple months ago due to anxiety and depression mostly the major didn’t suit me either I haven’t had a friends for like 3 years have no body to text no one in my contacts never been in a relationship never been invited ever somewhere I have no vision no idea what to do next what I want in life I have been so depressed and bed rotting for months in my parents house feeling like the biggest looser in my 20s it’s so embarrassing due to depression I don’t go out of my room no more i have no money at all no job nothing I don’t even have the confidence for anything anymore my parents and sisters gave up on me they think I’m a failure wich is true I truly believe i shouldn’t be here no more I see no future or purpose I think also sa as a kid still affects me even been 10+ years ago loosing friends also did damage I lost myself I also gained allot of weight and ruined my body and face only thing that was going for me I’m extremely ugly too now even my body is useless now sorry I had to vent