I don't think he deserves pity. There is a difference between not knowing how to express your feelings and destroying someone's life. Especially since he had planned her family's downfall long before their marriage. He only "changed his mind" when he realized she remembered their past life.
Bro he deadass hid killing her father and brother from her. Kept her hidden in the church just to have sex with her every time he went and leave then pretend to care about her fym you feel bad for him
Drop this at chapter 32. Feel bad for black hair guy... He and Loren just don't know how to express their love. So sad...